Women and silendafil?

[KensingtonGardens]

Have any women tried silednadfil (Viagra), and if so how did it affect sex, either solo or with a partner?
I’ve read that male and female anatomy are equivalent, but that male anatomy is on the outside so open to inspection when aroused!
When my partner is aroused, I can feel that she is engorged inside, but it’s not related to whether she later cums. When we have sex, she can tell quite quickly if she’s not going to cum and tells me so it takes the pressure off. We carry on love-making and I later cum from PIV which she says she finds pleasurable for the intimacy and as sex.
My partner finds it very difficult to orgasm, and tells me she has always been like this. I can make her cum by fingering, about once time in 4. With oral rarely, with PIV never.
We wonder if silendafil would help ”get her head right” as she puts it, and cum? Would silendafil increase blood flow, as with men?
I use it, on prescription, for a medical condition.

As I understand it, these drugs don't make you aroused. They work by enabling the bodies reaction to arousal. In the case of a man blood flow to and retention in the penis is improved allowing an erection to be maintained.

Not sure about affect on a woman.

I've had it a few times. A couple of times the sensation was heightened. The other times not. Not sure how much of a placebo it was TBF.

She might find some kind of sex therapy more beneficial and a more long term, sustainable solution than drugs. These meds can be dangerous if taken by someone who hasn’t had some kind of medical assessment first (either by GP or pharmacy) due to the effects on other conditions or medications.

I realise lots of people use these medications regardless but I wouldn’t put someone I loved at risk of potential side effects just to have an orgasm, or the joy of being able to provide one more easily.

There are other roads she could take if it bothers her - but she’s definitely not unusual. Most women don’t come every time - something like 60% I think.

Not tried medication but, personally, “getting my head right” to climax is very much “in my head” rather than mechanics. I need to feel very, very safe and need a lot of verbal reassurance, otherwise I resist orgasm. All very patronising and I’d be furious if a man spoke to me like that in everyday situations.

Have you tried a wand vibrator? My partner was similar a number of years of trying bought a hitachi magic wand mains and she came first time using and every time using since. Improved her ability to cum without the use of the wand appeared to have opened up the pathway for her .

Viagra etc works on the plumbing of men not the arousal hormones, so doesn’t work the same way, women taking Viagra will have the (side) effects of facial flushing, increased heartbeat, dizziness etc

My female neighbours female Dentist says she takes half a tablet before she has sex & her experience is that her body produces more lubricants which enhances the pleasure immensely.

Your neighbour told you about her dentist's sex life?

Blimey.