Gagging

[heidi696]

I have a new-ish partner and even though I was married for many years I realise I was very inexperienced with sex. This guy loves blow jobs and has cum in my mouth a couple of times but I gagged the last time and I’m kinda dreading it happening again. I want to like it . Will I get used to it. Do you also swallow or discreetly spit or … I feel like a teenager who hasn’t a clue 🙈

Maybe think about using a flavoured condom

@heidi696 ok, if “you want to like it” then a way forward might be to let him tell you when he’s about to cum and at that moment let him push his cock deep into your mouth so that as he cums you basically swallow it straight down without hardly tasting it at all….. an old girlfriend preferred this with me and it “worked for her.”
(I’m a sort of middle sized cock so she could take me deep in her mouth….might be more difficult if he’s a bigger girthier sort of chap.)

I used to feel a bit like this when I first started doing them. Aim it for the back of the tongue when the “time comes” so to speak, you won’t taste it that way. I love doing them now.

I've always swallowed since I was a teenager. If you're not used to it the advise already given is good - take it in deep and swallow it all straight down. I enjoy it now and haven't gagged for many years so yes you do get used to it.

Hold your breath and swallow or dribble it out of your mouth over your boobs! Sounds a bit crass but either way will work for you both. As he’s your husband/partner tell him to eat more fruit and drink more water which will make the taste more pleasant.

Is it the taste or texture that you're finding unpleasant?
If it's the texture, you might want to aim it into your cheek rather than your throat and then spit.
On the upside, if you actively want to enjoy it, lots of practice won't be a chore.
Letting your partner know about the problem and that you want to address it is almost certainly worthwhile.

Personally, I find the opposite is true. If anything's too far towards the back of my throat it tends to make me gag, whereas my most comfortable means of receiving his offering is where I can access the head - and particularly the frenulum area - with my tongue.

We're all a bit different and it's important to try different things to see what works for you both. In the early stages it can be useful if the party who's being pleasured can give a warning!

Practice makes perfect! Have fun.

Why would you try to force yourself into liking things that you don't like? It tastes disgusting, I gave it up as soon as I was old enough to realise I didn't have to do things just to please boys. Tell him to tell you when it's going to happen so you can ensure it's not in your mouth. You're not a teenager, you don't have to try to force yourself into liking things for a man.