Partner expects oral sex but never reciprocates, how to address it?

[FedUp120028]

My partner just demands head all the time and never returns the favour. If I want any kind of intercourse I have to do ALL the work. He gets moody if I don't give him a bj.

His favourite phrase (only phrase) in our sex life 'blow job' and if I'm really lucky 'jump on'

Any ideas how yo approach this? Everything else is fine.

Bloody cheek!

You can do better and find someone who appreciates and enjoys sharing your body.

He knows the key to unlock it…

I suspect he does not as sex is not (for me anyway) a set of 'traded' actions. It runs so much deeper than that, and I suspect from what OP says he has not a clue....

Do you love giving him head? Presuming you do, I’d put it to him that whilst you love giving him a BJ you’d enjoy it much more if he reciprocated.

Is a BJ part of foreplay for you both or is he ever asking (demanding?) you give him one as the main event?

It is the main event and after he's done that is it. No I do not enjoy giving head, it is a chore especially when I get nothing in return. He asks and expects.

Jeez! Yeah that’s pretty awful and selfish.
I can’t understand what his problem is (other than some misplaced sense of entitlement) surely he must get off on some level on the pleasure it gives you. I certainly do with my wife.
You deserve better.

This "man" sounds horrible and totally disrepects women. You deserve to be with someone who will treat you well and with that enjoy sex innthe rightvway. If you are at a stage where you are withdrawing BJ's (rightly so) then you are resentful already and now he will become resentful and thats a bad place for a relationship. Life is too short to be unhappy.