50, flabby and out of practice for nearly three years!! Help!

[mightymullet]

As above … I’ve recently lost nearly
three stone over the year so Im
flabby. I’m seeing someone and we will spend our first night together This weekend and I’m nervous ! He’s same age, fit and toned . We haven’t really discussed much sexually but are very attracted to each other but haven’t developed beyond kissing .
Any advice.
it’s been three years!

Anyone??

Just relax and let it all come back naturally.

He will already have an idea of what to expect when you take your clothes off, so just go with it and enjoy it.

Politely make sure you both consent and are on the same page and protected.

Have a great time.

Lube might be handy.

Just relax and enjoy. He has eyes so I’m fairly confident he likes what he sees 😊

Congratulations on your weight loss. Relax, have fun and be safe.

It's like riding a bike.... (well maybe not exactly but you get my drift)

He will already pretty much know what you look like naked. Clothes really don't hide much.

I think you've done so well losing lots of weight so you should be feeling happy about that, and he wouldn't desire you if he didn't, if that makes any sense.

Don't second guess him wanting you. He clearly does want you.

We are told soo much (and often by other women, by their insecurity or smugness, depending on how well they fit the 'ideal) that men only want women who look like models. Wtf is this nonsense. In my opinion, the guys I like and who like me want just a real woman who genuinely finds them attractive (for themselves). I have been told not once that the parts of my body that I'm worried about do not matter at all. They can't believe I'm so self-conscious.

As for sex - there's no forgetting how to do it. If you want him and he you, then it will just happen. Out of interest, why has it not gone beyond kissing?