Libido waking up but no interest in a partner

[MiserableMrsMopp]

My libido has been borderline non-existent for a while now. I think between menopause and the slow fade of my last relationship, it's just been... squashed.

But now it is quietly rearing its head again. Not directed at anyone. And not making me lust after anyone (the way it used to when I was younger). Just... the urge. But NO urge to actually shag a human being.

I'm finding this experience a bit odd. All my life my libido and lust has had a human focus, now it's just... undirected lust.

Has anyone else experienced this and found it odd? I don't want to need/want a partner again, I'm much happier single. So I hope to god it doesn't start awakening THAT particular interest again.

after I split from my last relationship I was quite almost traumatised and didn’t want anyone else but always felt a urge but then it soon became that I realised I didn’t want a tied down relationship I enjoyed just being open and exploring and just having fun and I’ve been happy since

Horny but CBA about or have any desire for A.N.Other? Yes Iv'e had occasions when that has occurred.

Just have fun with your imagination OP, sometimes it’s better 😉

Very true, you can imagine the unimaginable! Haha