New relationship ED

[CowPony17]

Hi everyone, this is a new thing for me. I am 44 and my new partner is 51. It is only 6 weeks into our relationship and I really like him. He really likes me too.

Bedroom side of things have been a bit up and down. He loses an erection quite a bit. He is amazing in so many other ways so not overly bothered but it makes me feel am I not good enough for him. He has said he is sexually and physically attracted to me and it is nothing to do with me.

I have been feeling a bit down about it today but maybe I am over thinking x

Is he older, fatter or less fit than previous partners?

Is he more perky in the mornings?

You do know he is not in control of his penis?

This is not a you thing.

It's a him thing. He's of an age. ED happens.

You need to decide if you're ok with that, or if you want a conversation about the little blue pills, or if this isn't good enough for you.

Thanks everyone. I am 44 and he is 51.
He has been mentioning blue pills to me so hopefully he will order some.
It may just be nerves and too much pressure and I am not put off at the moment s

I have no experience of either, but I am told Cialis work for longer than Viagra.

Hum, I know the feeling.
I take a blue pill to help, however I have experienced my manhood going down after a hard erection on some occasions. Although my lady still enjoys the sensation of me inside her.
We do use other methods of obtaining climaxes, such as oral sex, vibrators, masturbation.
I’m 74 and my lady is 65, we have sex a couple of times a week.
Don’t give up on him, suggest other methods of stimulation. It might be worth getting 100 mg viagra tablets and cutting them down to 25 mg to begin with.
Viagra does not work always for me. I always take mine on an empty stomach and if the mood takes us we have an enjoyable time if not there’s always the next time. All I can add is a meaningful sexual relationship is wonderful don’t give up.

Thanks @Bikergran for your heart response. It’s good to talk about these things. I think many people just bottle these issue up and suffer in silence. The more we talk about these things the better things become.