Can’t orgasm

[dogcat1234]

So I find it so hard to orgasm in general but how do women enjoy different sex positions when clitoral stimulation isn’t happening? I have never had a vaginal orgasm and say ‘doggy style’ does absolutely nothing for me, along with other positions.
can anyone suggest anything that helps them?

When I was younger I struggled. What helped most was realising there’s nothing wrong with needing clitoral stimulation, taking the pressure off orgasm altogether, and getting to know my own body first so I could explain what worked. With time, confidence, a partner who listened (and the odd helping hand or toy), sex became far more enjoyable even when orgasm didn’t happen every time.

I find doggy enjoyable and can orgasm from clitoral stimulation that way but for a vaginal orgasm I generally need him on top, with my legs raised so his penis gets my g spot at the right angle. The most likely way I will have a vaginal orgasm is from fingering the g spot directly. However I wouldn't put pressure on yourself as long as you're getting the clitoral orgasm and being satisfied that way. It took me years to be able to achieve vaginal orgasm consistently.