So what’s the norm when the guy is ‘finished’?

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So I probably should know this at my age but I feel that my sex life has been pretty unfulfilled but a recent sexual encounter made me question this.
So during sex if the guy finishes during PIV and the woman doesn’t, is it normal practice for the man to continue in a different means until the woman reaches orgasm? I suppose this is both
a) if they have supposed orgasm prior to prior by other means.
b) either hasn’t initiated fingering/ oral or has but the woman hasn’t reached orgasm.

Whoever finishes first has to help the other person

I have not orgasmed on many occasions because quite frankly it seems to take forever and my anxiety to get there takes over. I used to fake it with an Ex for years and now have learnt not to fake but just to say it’s ok not going to happen this time. But he would and does try anything to help me get there I must add. The people that have multiple orgasms 🫩😩. I wish!.

I typically like to cum before he does, and sometimes again afterwards. I just say “I’m ready to go again…” Most of the time he obliges, sometimes he rolls his eyes and accuses me of being a sex pest! 😂

I guess I'm fairly unusual in that I usually come first, depending on the guy I'm with. I wouldn't dream of leaving him hanging though, and to be honest I really enjoy finishing him off with my mouth. It's definitely a technique worth practicing.

Yes, in my experience if the woman doesn’t orgasm during PIV or foreplay, the man should ensure that happens before he rolls over and goes to sleep.

My husband doesn't always last that long so we make sure I have cum a couple of times before he gets inside of me. I am usually satisfied by this point so any extra orgasms are a bonus; I am usually feeling good by this point and it is quite easy for me to cum again. If I haven't orgasmed by the time he is done then one of us will masturbate me or use my vibrator on me.

Generally for us when I'm finished, we finish because I am not hard after and that's our time when we cuddle. That being said, I love her orgasms and find it a super turn on so, before we ever start PIV, I have usually either gone down on her to orgasm, fingered her to orgasm, or encouraged her to finger herself while I kiss her and stroke her and whisper fantasies in her ear. So she orgasms at least once each time. That's if we're being quick. If we're having a play night we do all sorts of stuff with toys, and then at the end we finish with PIV. And sometimes she orgasms from that.