Anal!!

[Chilternone]

Hi,

my new partner wants to try anal with me- any tips? Does it actually bring pleasure?

Thanks I shall pass on your suggestions

Definitely. Just meant that those packs of 3-4 plugs with gradual size increase were ideal for beginners, especially as it won’t take long before you’re happy (and keen) to move on from the smallest size.

They’re more than just to ensure comfort prior to anal penetration as well. Having an orgasm with a plug up your bum stimulates a whole new world of nerve endings and incredibly pleasant sensations!

My partner also lijes me to press the door bell whilst I am knocking on her back door waiting to be let in.

No they are not different. There is a difference between the width of male and female pelvis bones, but anal muscles are the same for men and women. If a man wants to stick his dick in a bum hole he should also be prepared to have an equally sized dildo put in his. If he cringes at the thought then he needs to think about why he thinks it’s ok to do something to his partner that he doesn’t want doing to him.

Men like sticking things in holes. We're sort of used to it. We already stick our thing in a woman's hole. Anal for us is just a slightly more taboo hole. But it's the same basic idea. Man brings stick. Woman brings hole.

Woman brings stick, man brings hole is quite a different idea. There isn't anything wrong with it, but it's a different head space, for both the man and the woman. Me personally, I would like to try it some day but I'd never tell my wife that because although she likes anal, she has no interest in doing anything with my butt. It's like traditional gender roles. She's very feminine and she is a bit submissive in bed. Her pegging me is for her, not at all like me having anal sex with her.

I don't think it's a case of, if a man can't accept being pegged he shouldn't want to do anal sex with a woman; it's more a case of, if a woman doesn't want to do anal sex with a man, the man shouldn't pressure her into it. The man can want anal sex without wanting to be pegged. But it's what the woman wants that counts.

Depends if you can trust your partner. I’ve tried it where my partner takes instructions and guidance initially and with lots of lube. Once you negotiate the initial entry I find it amazing. But if you have someone who wants to do it their way, it can be the opposite.

If you’re curious, give it a go, as long as you trust your partner to listen to you and stop if needed. Anal isn’t for everyone, I personally enjoy it but also know that the hardest part is the entry. You have to make sure you lube up, take it slow and talk to him, tell him
slowly. Magically once it’s in there, IMO it feels fantastic and brand new! But if you don’t enjoy it don’t persist

That's a really good answer and hopefully others will take note - should be pinned at the top of this thread!