Boyfriend has changed positions?

[Chattyapple123]

i have been working on my glutes in the gym which may be the reason but me and my bf used to do missionary a lot or me on top. For the past couple of weeks he always does doggy with me or reverse cowgirl and even fingers me from behind. Ive seen people say this means he has lost love for you and things like that because its less about making love

Do I need to worry?

What's your relationship like beyond sex?

What do your glutes have to do with this? Have you spoken to him about this? Maybe he wants to try different positions.

He is obviously not interested in seeing your face any more. And is deliberately making things less personal.

Talk to him if you are worried but I don't think what you've said suggests any need.

DW and I use doggy a lot. It's because seeing her bum is a big turn on for me and it doesn't mean I love her any less. Judging the quality of a relationship by the sexual positions you use is waaaaaay overthinking things.

Read the reply above yours

I did- and if applied to me, the reasoning in that post would be absolutely inaccurate.

I'm sorry, but this it a ridiculous conclusion to draw from so little information. You might as well suggest he's suddenly become a porn addict, or is having an affair or has just realised he's gay.

@Chattyapple123 If you've been working on your glutes, maybe he just like the look of your arse. Maybe he's read something in Cosmo about how it's easier to stimulate your g-spot in those positions. You've only said "for the last couple of weeks", but that doesn't tell us how often you've had sex, was it loving and passionate, did you cuddle after, what the rest of your relationship is like, has he said anything, do you spend quality time together outside the bedroom.

The only way you'll get your answer is by talking to him and, if he's a keeper, you'll get the answers you want to hear.

As someone who prefers doggy, l don’t get the”lost love” comment at all.

I like it because I can last longer (I’m a woman).

My DH prefers 69 above all else so what does that tell you 🤣

It tells you he’s doing a good job! Not one for me personally though, l clench my teeth when aroused!

Perhasp he has discovered/realised that you have a pretty good body from behind...

Try doing doggy in front of a mirrior and watch his face and he can watch yours.

@StarlightLady I guess it depends on your perspective - I think it probably can seem a bit impersonal sometimes depending on circumstances and other things around your relationship and the sex rather than just the position? From reading your posts I'd imagine you're pretty assertive and good at saying what you want, and your partners respect that - doesn't sound like that's what's going on here, unless I've misread something.