Shallowing… has anyone tried this?

[AnonAnonmystery]

I came across a few articles about shallowing recently and I’m curious and want to try it out ( after discussing with my partner). Has anyone tried this? I’m happy to hear how it feels for the male as well as the female ( I’m a female btw). Thank you!

So we don't need to Google it, or ask our mams, could you give us a brief description, @AnonAnonmystery ?

@LochSunart I think I will add a link to better describe it than my abilities. It’s nothing too wild :)

www.stylerave.com/what-is-the-shallowing-technique/

Very informative. It does seem to suggest, at one point, using penis and tongue. Doubt I could manage that.

Not sure either of us would manage that!! Let us know how it goes

Interesting. I wonder does it take a fair bit of self control. Not sure by the time we get to penetration I could allow just a tip lol.

This is what I am thinking too when it comes to my dp but in a way it’s like being restrained without physically being restrained. If we can at least try for 10 mins I’ll be happy!

i don’t have that expectation of both things happening at once as he’s not a gymnast, I think the penis being shallow is what I’m aiming for!

Will report back. Think it will be a few weeks time as this week we are only together for a few weekday nights and that’s not the time for experiencing, a tried and tested shag or three will be good in the interim.

Sounds like trying to eat a bowl of peanuts one peanut at a time, when you know you want to (and you will eventually, inevitably) end up grabbing a big handful and shovelling them all in your mouth in one go...

It amazes me how the wheel keeps getting reinvented relabled. This is really not a "new intimacy technique". It's just using your imagination and not just banging away mindlessly. 🙄

I think there’s a diff though between going slow to not putting the whole penis in? I know when my partner enters me after foreplay he lets out a sound of relief and so do I. Which is why I think “shallowing” would be interesting for both of us as it invokes a bit of self control 😅

How the heck any man could use his penis and tongue at the same time is baffling! Is it even physically possible?

A man can still have self control when fully inserted but, to answer OP’s original question, when my OH and I are close to an orgasm we get out the vibrator and she plays with her clit whilst I’m (probably) 25% inside her. We then time our orgasms together .

without the vibrator, I think we’d both get bored and revert back to full penetration very quickly!

Just to re-iterate, I don’t expect him to do both at the same time. It’s more the shallow penetration. It’s going to take more work on his side then mine unless I just get on top and control the situation 😅 I don’t think the link I sent does it justice.

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Sure I’ve tried this as I love the feeling of being penetrated and clit being stimulated at the same time. Although I can definitely imagine myself grabbing him by the buttocks and pulling him in for the deep thrusting and more intensive orgasm

I love this and so does OH. slow and shallow is the ultimate tease IMO. Done it for probably nearly 30 years, no idea it had a name.

It probably didn’t 30 years ago!

Who knew it had a label? Me and my ex used to do this frequently, she loved it until she could take no more teasing and we went “all in” intensely.

30 years is remarkable self control.

It’s just one part of sex for me and my DP… Those people who have a one-speed sex routine have a lot to learn!

It’s not really about speed, it’s about depth really!

My OH does this all the time, it is just a part of our sex, the tip is the most sensitive part of his penis so it gives him pleasure then he slowly penetrates me further and it feels soo great as he does it.

We tried this on Saturday night, it wasn’t pre discussed as my partner has a lot going on right now that’s stressing him out ( so I wasn’t going to add another thing to his to do list as trying this isn’t as important right now as feeling connected and loved) . However with me on top I decided to take it shallow, he loved it and said he loves it when I take control like that. I enjoyed it too but think it needs to be for longer next time, no restraint after a few glasses of wine!