Can’t orgasm without porn :(

[LilyLilacanna]

Since the whole porn restrictions online have come into place I thought it would be a good time to try and wean myself off porn and try to orgasm again without it. However it’s been a fail!!

I’ve tried using my vibrator and my imagination, audio erotica or after reading erotica but nothing works.

I’ve never been able to orgasm during sex even with my vibrator but could always get off with porn.

am I broken?! Is there hope I can orgasm again without porn?

Have you tried edging over days/weeks? Your brain needs retiring but it may take time.

My brain's been retired for years. Hasn't helped much....

My brain definitely needs retiring 😂 oops!

I can’t even get close so no where near the ‘edge’ !!! :( I think it will take time but I just get disheartened as when I try I feel nothing! Like when I read I feel turned on and I get flutters in my stomach but nothing no build up. During sex it feels really good but nothing like a build up to an orgasm