Hello! Just looking for some advice as I am really struggling in the bedroom!
My partner and I have a 2 year old together, and since our baby has been born I have really struggled with my sex drive, I just don’t want to have sex. When we have done it since, I’ve mostly really enjoyed it in the end, but I just have no desire to actually do it! It’s getting to the point now where I feel repulsed even by the thought of it, and I don’t know why!
Before having the baby we had an incredible and very active sex life. I know it’s bothering my partner, he is very open with telling me, but I find him quite pushy, always wanting to touch or grope me. I never feel safe just giving a kiss or cuddle as I know he will expect more.
I really want to fix this but have no idea where to start! Like I say, we used to have a great sex life, but now I never want it and I know my relationship won’t survive like this. Help!