Sex with my wife seems to have gone from electric, passionate and mind blowing to extremely one sided. I know that the ‘honeymoon period’ is over and things do change.
i have two older stepchildren who are almost adults now and one child of my own who is 6 so appreciate this has an impact and my wife is constantly tired and has stuff going on and always on her mind which means she’s rarely in the mood.
What I have noticed though is that when I do initiate anything it’s always me playing with my wife and licking her nipples and when she’s orgasmed we then have sex. She might occasionally feel my cock but never anything more than that and if she feels any pre-cum on my cock this annoys her and tells me I’ve ruined it and she’s not in the mood. She will no longer let me finger her, or go down on her and sex is always missionary. Kissing used to be passionate with tongues and now it’s just literally a peck.
after our son wife said if I get the snip it will be better and we can have more sex as we both hated condoms and she no longer wanted a coil which I was happy to do but it’s gone the complete other way.
ive mentioned it a few times and she says she can never relax incase the youngest comes in our room or if the older kids are in they normally have their partners over and we can constantly hear them at it. Even talking to the oldest the other day just me and him and his gf it somehow came up in conversation about sex and contraception and then they asked how often do we have sex and I was actually embarrassed to say once a month when they were both open to say they are every time they see each other and the girlfriend said she had a similar conversation with her mum who said she still has sex multiple times a week. (Wife has told me all her and her friends don’t need sex and see it as a chore and they just do it quickly so it’s done with so they can get back to the house chores or important stuff they need to get back to) apologies for the long post but a lot going on and just a bit confused.