Swinging

[Tess40]

Sorry to post this, my wife wants to try a swinger club. Has anyone tried these and what are the pros and cons

The pros are you get watch other men fucking your wife. The cons are you get to watch other men fucking your wife. It all depends on you, you see?

Its all about mindset. If you're Insecure or are prone to sexual jealousy, its not for you.

My experience, over many years, is you & your wife can do as much or as little as you feel comfortable with, while chatting, making new friends and just exploring at your own pace.
The one golden rule?
Before you go, communicate clearly and honestly, even if it’s a difficult conversation.
It’ll be a whole lot more difficult if you don’t have honesty between you and her.

The plus side? You could share some wonderful experiences and make lifelong friendships and memories.

The pros are you get fuck other men fucking your wife. The cons are you get to be fucked by other men fucking your wife. It all depends on you, you see?

My wife and I have been to a few and some are better than others. It all depends on what you are looking to experience.

We only go to clubs that have couples only nights as my wife enjoys exploring her bisexuality and we are not looking to involve any single men.

The clubs we've been to are members only and have strict policies on any unruly behaviour. The staff are very polite and helpful to anyone new to the lifestyle.

The best advice I can give is to talk in depth about what you are both looking to experience and set rigid boundaries to begin with. If you want to push your boundaries further then only do that after talking. Never do it in the heat of the moment and certainly not because someone else wants you to.

The way to view it is that you are doing this for your mutual pleasure and not to be pushed into anything you're not happy or comfortable with by anyone else.

Saying all that, they can be very pleasant venues to meet others and if you just want to chat, watch and experience the atmosphere you can do so without even having to get undressed.