My partner and I have been together for 2 years and are expecting our first baby together next month. I already have a DS (he’s 17) from my previous relationship.
Since hitting my 30’s 5 years ago, my sex drive is almost insatiable. However, DP seems to have suddenly gone from having a high sex drive that matched mine, to never really initiating sex anymore. We used to have sex almost daily, sometimes a few times a day. I understand that this is likely down to the “honeymoon period” but I still crave him just as much.
It’s really making me self-conscious. He still enjoys hand jobs and blow jobs by me, but never returns oral sex. In fact, I would say he doesn’t enjoy giving oral sex at all and will avoid it at all costs. When he does do it, he’s very impatient and starts to get noticeably irritated which means I can’t finish as I get in my head about it.
I feel undesirable. My body has changed through pregnancy but I wouldn’t say I’ve gained any extra weight. I am 100% confident he isn’t participating in porn use or cheating!
I just don’t quite know how to navigate this.
If anyone has any advice, I’d be grateful.