Hi Everyone, it is a long read, but I would appreciate it if you took some time to read it and give valuable feedback, especially if someone who went through something similar.
I'm 31, married for 4 years now, and have a 2 year old kid. Me and my wife had great sex life before the kid and it was very romantic and very intense like it should be.
But for the past 3 years, it went downhill, and now we are at a point where we rarely touch each other. I spoke to her countless times, and she said she feels tired and she prefers if we just have a quickie. But I have a very high sex drive, and I like to take things slowly in a more passionate way and enjoy every minute of it. Now I have come to a point where I don't ask her for it, and she never asked me either. I met a woman on Tinder who was on holiday in london sadly it was just one off, and we had an epic sex, it was passionate and very romantic which gave me a reason to find someone else for fwb who has similar needs like me.
But before finding someone, I just need advice regarding her behaviour, just wanted to know if that's common in women after kids and am I giving up too soon? Just need confirmation and some advice as well before dipping my toes into something else and living with no regret. If your advice is to talk to her or go to a therapist, I have done everything in 3 years. Also, how comfortable and willing are women to be in a fwb relationship with a married guy?