Eek- nervous and excited

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Name change for this, I’m mid-40s, but I wanted to share that the man i fell for in 1997 is coming over tomorrow evening. We are going to have some alone time and I’m pretty nervous/excited.
I was his first back then, and we have done this on and off throughout our adult lives, when single. When i left an abusive relationship long ago, he and I went to a hotel for the weekend and it was the best thing I’ve ever done. Haven’t slept together for over 20 years- we have both had families with other people and live 250 miles apart but keep seeing each other in passing in a location that we both share friends/family in. We both find ourselves single again. Eek!

Have a lovely time x

Congratulations! Have a great time!

Life takes us on all sorts of journeys. Yours sounds hard, with moments of fun throughout.

Therefore enjoy!

enjoy and I hope it is a good as before

Oh wow, you must be very excited! Have fun!

Today is the day? Good luck and enjoy. The 🦋 feeling is awesome

Personally, I think holding a candle for someone for 30yrs, through a marriage, isn't particularly healthy.

Idk… I have an ex I’d definitely send a ‘how u doin’ to if I ever divorce 😂 (and he’s single) don’t hold a candle for him but the sexual chemistry was on point!

It was magical!
When I was married, I thought it was forever, and it was 11 years, in which time I only thought of him briefly from time to time with a smile- nothing untoward. He’s just one of those people I come back to and it’s the same for him. We are from a very small community though so it’s always been very easy to stay in touch, even through mutual friends.

Really happy for you.

Are you going to see him again?

Sounds like a rom con. Lol. Enjoy.

There’s definitely more than sex there, for both of us. We live so far apart but I’m back here often so I think it will happen again at some point. I told him not to be lonely.
He is a very popular guy (with good reason- very kind, handsome, successful, down to Earth) and has local women chasing him (a mutual friend mentioned this as it has always been that way). He doesn’t seem to want a relationship with any of them and said he is fulfilled by his work and son.

He does say that there is something about me that gets him; I feel the same. I think he knows I’m as absorbed by my life as he is his and there are no demands. It’s deep friendship/affection that has lasted a lifetime, that’s for sure.