Online dating - Sex with someone new

[BoxOfCats]

If you’ve met someone through online dating, what’s been your experience with having sex with a new partner for the first time?

Since becoming single in my 40s, I have been seeing guys Ive met through online dating (over different time periods - not all at once!). The first two were fine but awkward which I put down to it just being the first time with someone completely new.

However more recently I met someone where the sparks absolutely flew in the bedroom, which made me wonder if it’s more about chemistry than anything else!

I think chemistry has an awful lot to do with it. Sometimes with someone new it is awkward but other times it can be amazing, for no obvious reason! Good luck and enjoy!

Definitely chemistry or energy. It's electric. Even ONS can have this effect. Sex is always amazing. Two people totally uninhibited.

I’ve dated two men since coming out of a long relationship/marriage late last year. First guy I fancied like mad but we didn’t really ‘click’ and the sex was awkward and felt quite boring. Second guy, the sex is fantastic, best I have ever had. But it does feel like we have incredible chemistry and just ‘get’ each other. Definitely chemistry has a lot to do with it I think!

@BoxOfCats mutual pleasure only comes if there is chemistry between you both, ofc first time can be awkward but you soon knw if it’s right for you . Otherwise just move on but don’t give up , there’s lots of fun to be had✊🏿

Chemistry is not the only thing to consider. Respect, tolerance, understanding and empathy are other traits to consider.
I met my partner online and we ended up in bed where the sex was unbelievable. I’m 64 and he’s 73, his one aim when we have sex is to pleasure me and make me have multiple orgasm’s which I do. We have sex three or four times a week and I realise what I have missed over the years. No wham, bam thank you mam here.
Since we have met we spend none sex time together. We’ve had days away, he’s taken me shopping, he’s met my family, we are going on holiday in September and I’m taking him to Paris in November. All these things are no on chemistry alone.