It must be the lovely weather, the ED threads are back in a vengeance!
firstly, and the absolute most important thing to remember is it’s got nothing to do with you. If a man has physical ED, it’s not caused by you, and unless he gets medical help there is little he can do about it.
But, he has to do something about it, for both your sakes. I saw countless urologists , I wasn’t embarrassed because I wanted a working penis. It took me nearly two years but my god, I’m so glad I got myself sorted.
there are three main reasons why he needs to get checked out.
1)for your mutual sexual enjoyment.
2)to check there’s no underlying health issues like heart disease.
3)to prevent atrophy. I lost 2 inches , if every man who ignored ED due to embarrassment knew that their penis could physically shrink, their view would be very different.
As for not initiating sex whilst you are pregnant, the ED will play a factor, for fear of not performing and letting you down, and secondly some men worry about hurting the baby or just find it a bit strange. Unless they are King Kong their schlong isn’t going anywhere close to the baby!