Adventure in the bedroom!

[beccabrown021]

Okay, so me and my partner have a fantastic sex life. But we are wanting to try something new, more adventurous. Does anyone’s partners have a fantasy of seeing you with someone else? If so, have you done it and how did it feel?
Also, please throw some sexy ideas at me for us to try! I’d love to hear new suggestions.

Thanks guys ☺️

I think there has been a rise in acceptance of people's kinks and far less judgment. This has probably led to people being more open about things.

And seeing how society has been more accepting of that element, they also go, "Well, it can't be that bad if so and so tried it and loved it".

This is how I have seen it.

I think the amount of tv programmes as well about swingers and sex experiments helps a lot and removes the stigma around it

For me, the term swinger really put me off, don't know why, but I really don't like it. I know what you mean about there being less stigma because of TV, the internet etc, though.

Yeah I don’t like the term swinger either! I hope it goes well for you and you enjoy it!

I think that society is opening and understanding that women are sexual beings.

The stereotypical belief that its only the guy who gets horny and its only the guy who wanta sex is fading away as people begin to understand and appreciate that women also have these desires.

20 odd years ago I remeber the only 3some anyone ever spoke of or fantasised about was FFM.

An MMF was just taboo. And all the connotationss around how emasculating it is for the guy who just wants to watch his partner have fun with another guy, also detracted from this.

People are growing in their confidence about what they enjoy.

Hi, firstly, I’m man, Im sensing important moment in your relationship, how strong and trusting are you both? Your chat should be open and honest, share interests, desires and fantasies, your possible fears or problems, and you must outline your boundaries.from my experience this will take your relationship to a new level !You and DH should discuss this idea in detail, what you both want out of it , to set certain boundaries and make sure that you both want to gain mutual pleasure? Good luck ✊🏿

(M here)

I don’t think anyone has mentioned (🤔) that actually sometimes it’s us men, who’ve been invited to join a couple, who may “put the brakes on.”
Recently I felt the couple really weren’t in the best of places with each other and gently withdrew from their plans…..they needed to talk a lot more to each other. Funny how they each told me things they should really have told each other!!

So, I guess what I’m saying is, some of us guys do actually think with our heads sometimes and not just our balls!

Good luck with your adventure, and keep talking….look after each other.