Age Gap Sex ..what's your experience

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I'm 46 and partner is 63.

I've never had it so good. He can stay hard for hours and hours with no help whatsoever, is brilliant at oral sex and is huge. Hes also great fun.

Love to hear stories of long term loves with an age gap that have gone the distance and had a fun and healthy intimate life that have lasted.

What’s his number.. 😂

I think you should just regard yourself as very lucky!

Willies look nicer as they get older

Why?! 😂

At 22 I had a thing with a guy 38 for about 8 months probably the best time sex life wise.
Never remarried following my divorce and age hasn’t really been a thing but now I’m at the other end of the age spectrum I generally go for younger guys.

My current partner and I have the same age gap as you two, but younger at I'm 39 and he's 56. We've been together three years now, honestly he's the best sex I've ever had and love of my life. I wish you all the best in your relationship

When I was 34 I had a holiday fling with a 42 year old woman. Not quite the same level of age gap, but I’ve always had a thing for older women and even in my 30s it made me feel like Dustin Hoffman in The Graduate.

At those ages I’m not even sure I’d say she was an older woman!

Yeh, it wasn’t a huge age gap by any means, but it was the first time I’d ever had sex with a women in her 40s. It felt kinda good for that reason as I’d always had a thing for the sexual experience and confidence of a middle-aged woman since I was in my 20s.

As a 21 year old living and working near Johannesburg, I had an affair with a 43 year old woman - it was pretty amazing, she taught me many things, I had the time of my life - she was a real stunner.

Sadly it ended when I found out she was married.

To this day, I still wonder what might have been, we were great together.

I had one of these relationships when I was younger. I've just mentioned it in a nearby thread on oral sex and that reminded me. I'd read about sex in women's magazines, and as adolescence proceeded I began to feel some excitement about the idea of these activities, which filled my youthful imagination in my idle moments. But that's all it was - the ideas. In practice, I had moments with one or two boys, and Johnny Rotten's phrase 'two minutes of squelching noises' seemed to have been taken by them as an instruction rather than a piece of social satire. Sometimes before we even got our clothes off. Surely this couldn't be what had inspired journalists to fill the pages of Cosmopolitan and More? On meeting the somewhat older man who became what I shall call 'my lover' all that changed. He'd got an established career, a house and a car, and seemed very worldly and sophisticated. Through him I enjoyed a great many opportunities I'd never have had a chance to enjoy otherwise, like going to the theatre, dining in restaurants, meeting artists and actors and others who worked in creative fields. He also knew a good deal about getting into university which was extremely helpful to me at the time. Through his patience and encouragement and many hours spent practicing in his long-suffering car, I got my driving licence. His approach to, shall we call it, intimate life was a revelation too. Someone who would cuddle me, massage me and take a delight in my pleasure whilst telling me I was beautiful was not something I ever thought I'd experience. I know many people on Mumsnet would see such relationships as exploitative and predatory, but I see this as something that enabled me to escape the violence and meanness of small town life.

I saw him again last year. Nearly a quarter century older. Hair that was once lush and flamboyant is now receding, the former washboard abdomen had been replaced by a spreading waistline that overhangs his belt, his once upright shoulders are hunched. He's saying the same old things and going to the same old places. So he wouldn't appeal to me now. But at the time it helped rather than hindered.

I had a similar experience an uni. For a while I was seeing a lecturer -not one of mine, different course - who was 23 years my senior. I wasn't phased by the age gap, in fact I absolutely loved it. I never felt like he was exploiting his position - actually I was the one who'd come onto him. I loved his intelligence, his love of culture, the mature world he lived in, the places he took me and the stories he told me. But most of all I loved how utterly grateful he was every time we had sex. He'd recently come out of a long sexless relationship with someone his own age. Whenever I got naked he looked like a kid who'd just opened the best Christmas present ever. It can be very flattering to be looked at in that way. It didn't last long but I look back on that relationship with fondness and don't regret any part of it.

Yes, @GlasGal83 I can see what you mean. Our age gap was more like 15 years, but one thing that I found fascinating and attractive was the way he was able to take so much pleasure in me and my company. When I went away to university we drifted apart and I spent more time with people my own age. After a while - in my early twenties - some of my age mates were starting to 'catch up' with me and it was possible to find contemporaries interested in similar things, like literature, poetry and alternative subcultures. Rather than drinking, sport and the popular culture fads and fashions of the moment, none of which have ever held much appeal.

Totally agree. When the lecturer and I split up (his decision, not mine) for a while I really struggled in relationships with guys my age, whose main interests were playing videogames, going out clubbing and having sex. Well maybe the sex part wasn't so bad lol - but generally I could no longer relate to them and I missed the sophistication I'd experienced with the lecturer.
And before anyone starts saying I needed a father figure - I didn't. I had a father who gave me everything a father should, I wasn't looking for any of that. I genuinely enjoyed the guy's company. Sadly I didn't actually love him. He was the one who realised that (benefit of maturity) and ended it for both our sakes. I resented him at the time, I thought I loved him but later I realised he was right.
It wasn't until my late twenties that I met someone (DH) who possessed the intellectual faculties I'd been looking for and enjoyed the grown up activities I was interested in. With everyone else before him, relationships just felt like a game I didn't particularly want to play.

I've been having sex with older people since my teens. I've also been having sex with younger people too. I don't remember asking their age at the time nor was I particularly interested. It was sexual chemistry and it led to fun and passionate sex. I don't remember asking if they were married or not. None of them were long term. Some were ONS. The longest was probably 3 months. The latest DFWB is a little older I think.

Macron is 25 years younger than his wife, the slap must help keep in line.

DH is 14 years older than me and the sex has only gotten better as the years go by. No ED issues at all thankfully and he’s fab in bed!!

I was very interested to read the above posts.
My last husband died in 2020 after contracting Covid after bowel cancer,
unfortunately I thought my sex life was over how wrong I was.
After 4 years of being single and being a spare part at any party or family get together I decided to look for a partner.
I joined a couple of dating sites and made contact with some very nice gentlemen. Unfortunately although they were nice there was no spark so they dropped by the way. Eventually at the beginning of this year a gentleman contacted me and we had a 40 minute video call, this was followed by another 12 minute call which was a disaster. Consequently I archived his number and forgot him.
A couple of weeks later I noticed my archive file had a message it was him. He asked if we could meet and I agreed. We both live in Gloucestershire so I picked a suitable restaurant.
We met and I fell for him, I mean a 64 year old woman acting like a teenager, I grabbed his collar and kissed him. He responded and the evening was the best I have had in a long time.
A couple of days later I messaged him asking would he like to come to my place. I work from home and had a few free hours in the afternoon would he like a coffee. Of course he would and he turned up at the agreed time.
We were in bed in less than five minutes. He went down on me kissing and caressing me, I had never had sex like that before and as for the multiple orgasms I thought they were only written about in novels. All I can say is if this is what sex is like, what had I been missing.
We met again every day until my holiday 8 days later. We did everything to each other, oral sex on each other, penetrative sex Cowgirl, rear entry you name it we did it. Using fingers. We did everything. And as for orgasms I have never had so many at a time. What a wonderful and pleasurable time I had.
I went on holiday and he sent me regular text messages daily. Saying what he wanted to do to me and what I could do to him. Needless to say when I return home we were doing those things within minutes of getting in doors.
Sex is a wonderful thing between two people when they enjoy each other. We have been away since my return and the sex has still been great. I enjoy all aspects of his love making. We pleasure each other regularly as and when the fancy takes us.

The amazing thing is that at the age of 73 he can pleasure me as many times as he likes and I’ll enjoy what he does to me.
Readers may think this is just a sexfest but it isn’t over the past months we have grown emotionally together. We look out for each other, we cuddle on the sofa, I love listening to him shout at the TV. He’s away on holiday at the moment, booked before we met.
I cannot wait for him to get back so we can begin again and plan for the future.
At my age when I thought the pleasure of sex and life had gone, I now feel renewed. Many friends have remarked on how happy I look. I’ve got that twinkle in my eye again. I hope our relationship develops and we can enjoy what years we have left. I know sex will fade in time, but I am so fond of a man who has made me feel like a woman and made we realise how wonderful and enjoyable a good intimate life can be.

The rest of a man gets wrinkled as he gets older. The willy comes already wrinkled & then become smooth when aroused

Dreamy Gloucester Girl
What a lovely story ❤️

Thankyou for your for your kind words Parrun69 💋

I know… I shouldn’t have asked! Lesson learned 😂

Had a GF where our age difference was around 18yrs, we had the most amazing sex life while it lasted..she was older than me.

I 32, she 48. Amazing. She turned me on the first time a saw her at a new job. One day she asked me to swing by her place after work. She seduced me, but it did not take much. Been 40 years and I remember like it was yesterday.

Aged 32 I had a thing with a 20 year old - he was incredibly athletic as well as being talented beyond his years. Much less memorable was a married bloke (I know, it was all kinds of crap) 25 years older when I was in my 40s, the sex was shite too. So age is not at all the key factor.