My boyfriend and I have been together a year, he’s 23 and I’m 31. When we first got together we were like rabbits. He had some sensitivity issues at the beginning due to a dodgy circumcision which he overcame a couple of months into our relationship. Not long after we slept together for the first time he said I was his first. Our sex life was good for the first maybe 6 months, then I started to notice that he only seemed to want sex when HE wanted it and never showed an interest if I said I was horny and would kind of push me away if I tried to initiate. He also barely ever goes down on me and due to the sensitivity he’s a bit apprehensive about me going down on him which is a shame as I enjoy doing it. We also only ever do missionary, even though I’ve told him I want to explore different positions. It’s the same routine, he gets horny, he gets hard, we kiss, he climbs on top of me, I touch him for a little bit,it goes in, 10 minutes later he’s done, he then will touch me after so I can O. Then that’s it for the rest of the day/night, and sometimes for a couple of days. There’s no foreplay, there’s no build up. If we have a date night there’s no flirtation or getting touchy feely and building up tension. The second he gets hard he just wants me upstairs so he can have his release and then that’s it. I’m bored. I’m so sexually attracted to him that I want to have sex with him multiple times a day, I want to have that build up, that tension, I want passion. But I’m getting none of it. I’ve communicated this to him so many times but nothings changed. A lot of the time he’ll just say he’s tired, or sometimes he’ll prefer to get himself off because it’s quick and easy. I feel so undesired. He’ll say I’m so sexy and everything but I just don’t see that in his actions. I’m not sure what else to do. I have a high sex drive and I just feel so dissatisfied.