How do I get husband to be more vocal during sex

[Archersunshine]

Just as the title suggests.
My husband and I have a really good sex life and he is becoming more adventurous and trying new things I’ve asked him but he isn’t vocal at all during sex which I’ve told him is a real turn on for me.
He will joke when we aren’t having sex and grab me and dirty talk to me but I’m a silly playful way and I’ve told him to save it for the bedroom!! But I think when he’s in the moment he can’t.

I read and listen to smutty books and have told him the things I find sexy and even offered to let him read or listen but he says no.

I try to encourage him when we are having sex by being vocal but he will give a generic response like yes and that’s it. Over texts he can be filthy too but doesn’t translate into the real thing.

I know it can be embarrassing if you’re not used to be but how do I encourage him?

Maybe he can’t multitask 😂

seriously though my partner talks to me sometimes during sex which I love but during the moment I’m more like yours and struggle to vocalise fantasies so say more yes and no. We do talk a lot about stuff when not having sex.

for me I just get too swept up in the moment I guess.

I have a similar issue in reverse. I’ve found that it hard to get someone who vocalising does nothing for them to be able to do it themselves and I have tried like you. Also think some of it is confidence and getting into adult playfulness.

You say you listen to erotica . I’d say give bloom stories a go either together or get him to listen. There format is short 20/30 mins with dirty talk and some AMSR. Think they possibly have a dirty talk tutorial. He may pick up some hints and tips.

I don’t think you can, at least not force him, he is either vocal or he isn’t and if he isn’t then it’s probably because he feels more comfortable that way and by him unwillingly being more vocal he is likely to feel less comfortable.

let it happen naturally; and if it doesn’t happen then I’d just accept it.