HOT SHOP GUY!
Separated 8 months from 17 year marriage. It’s been a journey not gonna lie! But I am settled in my new home and much happier after leaving my controlling husband. I am keen to stay on my own and work on myself so when or if I do meet someone I’ll be in a good place for it. However 🫢 I came across a really hot guy one day in a local shop 😂 and we kind of had eye contact and smiles etc as we went about our shopping duties (I know cringey) and that was that. Got a little kick out of this and went about my day! I live in a fairly small town since the separation. About a week later I went out for dinner with some local girls and one of them posted a picture of us on social media. Next day hot shop guy asks to be my friend! Obviously curiosity made me accept and we have been chatting on there for a while which has been lovely and nice and distracting from the reality of life as we know it! Anyway… we met for a walk this week and coffee (secret location away from eyes 👀 of gossipy town) and we shared a kiss. Now I'm no teenager but this made me feel like one! Sooo he asked to take me for dinner and I said no!!! Only because it’s early days for both of my kids (if they knew it would be very upsetting for them) and I don’t want it getting out that I’m meeting random hot guy for seedy little walk 😂. So he asked if he could cook for me next week at his house😱😱. Should I go and risk falling into his bed and getting myself into all manners of naughtiness with hot shop guy who I don’t really know? Am I just overthinking as I have been with one guy for so long and this is very new - and thinking of the kids etc or should I have some fun?! I’d appreciate some help with this. My friends tell me to have fun!