Dislike of HJ mess - IABU?

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Not sure if this is an age thing (early 40s) but I've started to really dislike the mess from HJs. I don't remember ever being as bothered with actual sex but, for some reason, I just hate the sensation of lubey hands and then being covered in DH's load. I'm curious if this is just a "me" thing, and I need to woman-up, or if it is more common? WAIBU to ask to use condoms or a glove, or is that being too precious?

Actually, I love the taste of both - provided it’s clean. I’m just very lucky I guess that my DH always makes sure he’s clean in that area if he wants me to do that.

I’ve thankfully never had the “pleasure” of a stale offering 😂

DW isn't fond of a mess but I love it, so it works out that when I play solo (as in no one else home) I will edge and prologue, use lube and try and get a ridiculously messy finish over myself.

In the somewhat rarer event of us playing together I'll always finish through sex as that's important to her (and what's not to like about that) - this thread has definitely got me wanting a HJ though 😅

Edited to say - you absolutely are not being unreasonable in not wanting to get messy!