Completely overwhelmed with sexual desire for new partner

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I'm late 30s and I've been seeing a man who is early 30s for about 2 months. I understand it's normal to be having a lot of sex in the early stages with a new partner, and enjoying it, but what I am experiencing feels more intense than that by several orders of magnitude. I've not been like this with anyone before. I feel like I'm constantly on heat when I'm with him. When we are together, as soon as we get through the front door, we are like two wild animals in the middle of mating season. We are in a mad rush to get our clothes off, get to the bedroom and have sex. We are barely even making it to the bedroom sometimes. He has said he finds it a massive turn on that I am so enthusiastic about sex. I'm just massively turned on by him too. He is absolute dynamite in bed. It's not just the sex itself which is amazing, he's a lovely kisser and brilliant with his tongue and fingers. I'm thinking about it constantly and pining for it even when I'm not with him. It's the best sex I've had with anyone by a huge distance. This isn't sustainable is it? I'm just hoping it lasts for as long as possible. 😄

Are you broody?
prob normal

Hi Op I can recall what you have described when I was in my 20's and it was normal then between us both.

It starts like that, just expect in time you will both get over the initial honeymoon period and the settle into something different, unless you both work hard to make sure it stays fun and creative. Enjoy while it lasts!

It’s probably not sustainable to this level in the longer term, but it’s a lovely start. MN has many threads about the start not being so good. There’s no reason why the future shouldn’t be bright albeit on a slightly reduced scale,

Yep, completely normal when you’re physically (and emotionally) attracted to someone. It’s why it’s called “the honeymoon period”
I experienced it for the first time when I met my DH, no it doesn’t last forever, but make it last as long as you can 🤣🤣 it’s a lot of fun.

My relationship with my wife started in a very similar way. We had sex at every opportunity in the car, bedroom, lounge, kitchen, outdoors and believe it or not in an Alpine mountain hut at high altitude. We knew each other for 51 years and were married for 46 of them. We had sex regularly through out our lives right up to a month before she died and enjoyed each other’s bodies. At my current age I would love to find another lady who would like an intimate relationship. If anybody has any ideas let me know. In the meantime get on with it and enjoy each other life is to short to waist.

We are still like this after 3.5 years.

Still like this after 5 years esp if we are on holiday ..:long honeymoon period but I love it! Enjoy, it’s really not a problem that you have at all and shows you are really compatible.

Absolutely normal - and possibly heightened because of your age and hormones as you head towards your 40s.

I am a bit broody and wondered if that had anything to do with it!

The first few weeks with my husband was like this, just instant chemistry. In fact so much so I fell pregnant during that time. We've been married a few years now and we're not having it three times a day like we were but we still fancy each other and have it at least a few times a week. It's a good thing.

It doesn't go away. Not when it's as strong as that.

Me and dh actually had sex about 3 times a day to begin with for about a year our sex life is still amazing and strong 8 years later not 3 times a day now but plenty in the week we can't keep our hands off each still were late 30s and dh is 40

Why even bother trying to get to the bedroom?
Always find furniture/floor sex is hotter.

Sounds like an excellent way to start 2025 if you ask me.

There's so much unhappiness, disappointment and conflict in intimate relationsnhips - especially going by what people post on Mumsnet - it's quite heartening to discover that someone's enjoying themselves!

Haven't tried floor sex yet as I'm worried about friction burns from the carpet. 😄We have had sex on the sofa a couple of times though and enjoyed it.

Me and DP were the same very intense at first sex every single time we saw each other 😁
I’m happy to report that although it’s not quite as intense as the beginning, 5 years down the line we still have an amazing sexual chemistry, we still have sex almost every time we see each other (average of 4-5 times a week) and we still very much fancy each other! I’m early 40s and have never had a connection like this with anyone previously. Even with my ex husband we only had sex twice on our 2 week long honeymoon 😬 DP and I manage more than that in a single morning when I stay over 😆

Sometimes you just have that other level connection with someone enjoy it!!!

Stop talking about this subject, you’re making me h*y. Even though I’m the wrong side of the ages above I can still rise to the occasion. If only I could leave a contact number.😃

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You are so on the wrong site.

What site should I be on NessaSmith? Most of them I’ve be to so far are rubbish.

Blimey DreamyPeachReader I'm sure you are a nice chap but this site & thread aren't here to get you a date. If you keep asking these kinds of needy questions you'll get us blokes a bad rep on here. If you want to start a separate thread seeking recommendations for dating/hookup sites then go right ahead.

No more from me here😚Sorry if I’ve upset any body.

Not at all in my case DreamyPeachReader and sorry if above came across as a bit harsh! Most of your posts are great IMHO.