Do cuckhold relationships work?

[Cheque12]

Are cuckhold relationships successful? We're a couple married for 12 years. I'm 55, she's 61. My wife has always had a bit of a roving eye and we've have quite a liberal approach to sex and have had a couple of threesomes with men, but mostly, she indulges in cybersex online which I'm fine with, as long as I know it's happening.

However, recently she's met someone online she likes. Similar age, not too far away in Kent and seems a nice guy. She mentioned cuckholding instead of a threesome and I wasn't sure about it.

My relationship with her is good, but it's a bit like flying a kite on a very windy day. I don't want to lose control of it.

Cuckolding is very different from a threesome. You need to think very carefully about how you would feel about not being part of a sexual relationship between your DW and A. N. Other, and talk very seriously about it.

Would you want to be in the same room and watch? Wait somewhere else? Maybe even drop your DW off to A, N. Others house?

Some men love it - love hearing about their partners exploits, love the "reclaim sex" etc but jealousy can easily rear it's ugly head, and maybe in this instance, the fantasy should remain just that.

Are you certain you want to watch your wife having sex with another man, threesomes may be ok for you, you are all involved, but how will you feel if she’s clearly enjoying it more than she does with you for example, it’s a personal choice, for me if my wife wanted to have sex with another man while I watched, she would quickly be an ex wife, personally I’d leave it well alone

I like your analogy @Cheque12, yep it is a bit like flying a kite; it can be exhilarating for both of you, sometimes a little flat, and watch out for the crash & burn.....jealousy etc. But you know this already don't you? She has a wandering eye, and you're wondering if you give her the freedom to indulge herself, will it work for you also, and hopefully for you both as a loving couple.....there's only one way to find out, and you both have to weigh it up together ....

I've been the occasional "invited other man" for a couple over a long period, not the only one for them. I'm not a natural "Bull" and they don't want humiliation for him.....just quiet dominance over her. It's important to know what you're both looking for ..... some women like their partners being humiliated sexually for example; that's not me and I'd be a transparent fraud to such a couple if I tried. What I'm trying to say is both be clear what turns you both on in this scenario, try and match the guy for that, and always keep talking and checking in with each other between sessions in case other feelings creep in ..... I once found myself almost "counselling" a couple when I could see something had changed....long story for another time.

I would say they do work