Masturbation advice

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Name changed! I need some advice because I Although I do talk to females friends... this is a little more personal!
I've recently been experimenting with masturbation.. years of quick to the point end results type but now I'm looking for more!
My question is has any other ladies found they just cannot squirt? I've tried several times.. desperately wanting to know what it's like and I feel I'm almost there... but no. Maybe I'm wasting my time!

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Oh yeah, a lot of secondary schools have inset today I think...

Why the desperate need to be able to do it? I actively try not to so that I don't mess up his sheets.
I would imagine that the harder you try the less likely it is to happen?

Satisfier pro 2 works on me though

Isn't it just an urban myth?

Why? it's mainly urine.

Male here and a trained tantra practitioner. It might seem challenging in the beginning. However, it gets easy with time. There are specific points that need stimulation through your bm and puy including cli*ral stimulation - not just the head but also along the legs. For me I have enjoyed the journey with a few partners who were willing to explore. the first time around it will take upwards of 20 minutes.

Feel free to DM - happy to chat if it helps, only because I love to spread the love :)

Absolutely not.

I ve been with 2 ladies that squirted
one was like a fire hydrant, the pressure was incredible and jetted about 5 inches in the air, and it certainly never felt or smelt like urine

This is the urban myth.

So if it's not urine, then what can it be in such quantity (instantly)?

To squirt from experience and chats with friends/other women it always comes (no pun intended) from deeper penetration. Look up “A-spot” orgasm, it isn’t achievable to most woman as it’s kind of painful but it hits a certain spot that just makes it all flow out lol. He isn’t long enough to do it himself but if he wears a sleeve then it reaches deep enough to achieve it or if solo I have two long toys that make it happen.

So you are sure it is all from the vagina nothing to do with bladder/urethra. If deeper penetration required is it from the cervix area? What gland generates it?
None of my GFs did it? (yet?)😬

Lola Jean, a sex educator who holds the squirting world record no less recommends the Njoy as a way to stimulate the g spot.

I bought one with the mindset that it probably wouldn’t work but was very surprised that it did. Now I know the muscles and technique, I can squirt with fingers or a penis.

And squirt is not urine. I’ve peed on people during sex and I’ve squirted on people during sex (consensually of course!) and can categorically say it is not the same.

Was this aimed at me ?

@Truthbetolddd ;Hi I was asking the question of anyone who might know the answer. Where is that 'stuff' generated?

I’m gonna say it’s created for me when my cervix is hit. Where it comes from god knows

An article from SELF by Erica Sloan, "So You Want to Learn How to Squirt During Sex" says:

"Squirt fluid, by contrast, is now known to originate in the bladder, thanks to a fascinating 2022 study involving five women whose bladders were filled with an indigo liquid; when they got down to sexy stuff and squirted, the fluid was totally blue. You’re probably wondering then: Is squirting just peeing? Not exactly—though it’s a hotly debated question. The liquid that gushes out when you squirt contains components of urine like urea and creatinine, but it’s also been shown to have chemicals created in the prostate. Anecdotally, squirt is also typically clear and odorless, which has led many experts to suspect it is a distinct fluid from pee—potentially a diluted version (and containing more urine if you don’t pee before sex)."

Squirting has been associated with a G-Spot orgasm. The fluid can come out in a stream from the urethra, hence the name squirting. The G-Spot needs firm pressure. In order to find the G-Spot, initial arousal is necessary.The G-Spot is located 2 to 3 inches up the front (anterior) vaginal wall between the vaginal opening and the urethra.It can be manually located by inserting 2 curled fingers into the vagina and using a “come here” motion. Once the spot is located, deliberate, direct pressure is used, building the intensity. Many women find that pressing just above the pubic bone while stimulating the G-Spot internally is needed. Since pressure is being applied, it produces a feeling that she is about the urinate.

My wife would squirt periodically when she masterbated. However she really enjoyed squirting and having an orgasm when using a mains powered vibrator on her Clitoris. She would pleasure herself every time with a vibrator then I would pleasure her and watch her orgasm. Regular sex was the glue which kept us together.

Allow yourself to loose control and you will get there and it’s incredible.

Skene's glands

I’ll have to look into this

The online website, Healthline, has an article, "Everything You Need to Know About Squirting", that discusses this. The article describes the role of the Skene's glands:

"The fluid - not pure pee but a combination of urea, uric acid, and creatinine - is released by the Skene’s glands, which sit at the lower end of the urethra. When someone squirts, “it’s usually from G-spot stimulation, or clitoral and G-spot dual stimulation,” said certified sex coach Gigi Engle, author of “All The F*cking Mistakes: A Guide to Sex, Love, and Life.” The Skene’s glands, G-spot, and urethral sponge are all located in the same area. “Typically, if you stimulate one thing, you likely stimulate them all,” she explained."

For more on this, you can refer to a DVD from sex educator Tristan Taormino, "Expert Guide To The G Spot" from Vivid Entertainment's "VIVID Ed" series. Although this video is explicit, it is for sex education, not porn. This can be purchased from the Adult DVD Marketplace website.

I taught myself how to squirt with a vibrator but it has to be inside me very deeply. I’m single at the moment so haven’t got anyone to do this with but I fantasise about squirting with a partner - hopefully it’ll be on the cards for 2025! If you learn to
do it by yourself it takes the pressure off you and your partner during the deed.

It also helps if a hand is used to put pressure just above the pubic bone while the G-Spot is stimulated internally. This could be done during partnered sex.