I need more advice, sorry…

[AgnesEm]

I am now starting to enjoy sex with my new partner and feeling less guilt for doing so. New partner is being really respectful and he is helping me explore my sexuality and enjoy my own body. The orgasms are pretty amazing, and I wish I’d started having them more a long time ago.

however, I can’t go down on him well. With husband blowjobs we’re easy but I can’t seem now to get it right. New man is uncircumcised which I have never seen so I wonder if I’m doing something completely wrong. I asked him and he just says it’s amazing but too intense and no matter what I try or what he suggests makes it less so. He says it’s not an issue but I want to make him feel special too. Are there any tips or techniques I should try… I’m reluctant to google as I’m not sure I want to see the results.

And men… whilst your help is appreciated I don’t want you in my DMs offering to show me

My DH is uncut so I know the difference! Maybe just ask him how he likes it best - foreskin back or free to slide over his glans, best hand movements, best mouth technique - as with many aspects of an intimate relationship, communication is key!! What is it that he finds ‘too intense’ ?

I'm uncut and love a bj. I pref when she has are hand at the base so she doesn't push foreskin too far and sometimes masturbrates me at same time. You could ask him to put his hand there so you know how far to go?

If your back in the saddle this may not be the best resource but it’s wrote by a man and is pretty comprehensive from basic to adventurous

Hope it’s of some use I’d also maybe use some flavourless lube like Uberlube

https://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-give-a-blowjob

l’ve known circumcised and uncircumcised and this isn’t something l’ve come across with someone.

Have you tried going hands free and applying less movement and minimal pressure from your lips? I’ve taken people to completion this way.

Think ice lolly.

You need to get him to elaborate.
What about it is too intense? Are you pulling his foreskin all the way back when giving him the blow-job?

I’ve tried lots of things… foreskin back licking gently, he seems to enjoy and then it sort of loses his erection. I’ve tried getting him to articulate but he can’t…. Exh was never an issue, I thought I was quite good but maybe not which is why I thought it was maybe due to foreskin. I will keep trying to get him to tell me what to do, he always says it’s really good.