How much does reproductive biology influence your erotic thoughts

[NinaOakley]

I am post menopausal and have no actual desire to have any more children. My (fairly new) partner would have made a wonderful dad, but that opportunity did not present itself during the traditional reproductive years.

i’ve found when we make love recently that my mind is flooded with desire to be fucked/impregnated/sired by him.

Is it just me that gets these thoughts after they have ceased to be a real possibility? I normally advocate sharing fantasies, but this one feels weird! Gents, would you want to be told this?!

If I wasnt aware of you being post menopausal, I'd probably run a mile!
But knowing that theres no chance of impreganting, I'm sure most men would be happy to indulge in those fantasies!

I don't think there's any man alive who would not love to hear that his girlfriend's mind gets flooded with desire to be fucked by him.

Maybe tell him that first. You could always leave the impregnated stuff to yourself and just enjoy those thoughts privately, if you're worried he'll find it strange.

Don’t tell him that you want to be “sired” by him though. That would make him your father 😬

"i’ve found when we make love recently that my mind is flooded with desire to be fucked/impregnated/sired by him.
Is it just me that gets these thoughts after they have ceased to be a real possibility? I normally advocate sharing fantasies, but this one feels weird! Gents, would you want to be told this?!"

Yes! Hot as f××k. Tell him that, it will blow his mind.

Probably make it clear in a beforehand non-sexy time that fantasy is not going to come true or he'll run a mile.

I didn't know what it meant so it seemed pretty good to me. :)

I love a vocal woman .... I've always enjoyed a woman who can verbalise her thoughts and desires in that moment.....often turning a sensitive love making session into a fuck fest at the switch of her mind.

You keep talking 😁