Sealed up

[mustbelikeavirginbynow]

This is literally how I feel. I have not had sex for 14 years. My youngest will be 13 in a few days, and I last dtd the day he was conceived. Even that wasn't really consensual, although I didn't realise at the time that I:was being sexually abused.
I now think that I will never have any kind of sexual relationship ever. Which is strange because I used to be quite adventurous at one time.
I can no longer remember what it is to be actually touched
So sad

(M here)
Just wanted to say, never ever give up. My now long term fwb had over 10 years without any affection or intimacy. She hadn't forgotten how to give and receive.....I hope you rediscover that joy soon.

I've been in a similar position, though a couple of years less.
Then had sex with a new partner for a few months and it was FAB-U-LOUS!!!
Sadly that didn't turn into a LTR, and I've been horribly single again since, but my point is there is light at then end of the tunnel.

@mustbelikeavirginbynow Are you still in a relationship with this person? If so, why?

Life is too short to not live it. Put yourself out there. There are plenty of single guys looking for hook ups, FWB, FB and longer term relationships.

1/3 of the respondees to this post Do indeed seem to be men, single or otherwise, looking for those things!

@mustbelikeavirginbynow have you had any counselling about the time your son was conceived or your current situation?