non-sex talk during sex - it's a turn off

[kentlad]

So, I(m33) do not mind the usual dirty talk but my partner(F28) finds it okay to put me off by stopping to either moan about something I did or didn't do, make a joke about something etc. I stand there with a full erect member and have to start going back and forth or have someone laugh about silly things like "unusual noise of wetness, air bubbles,a look i may make etc,"

She finds it weird that sex is usually a time you are just focused on turning each other on etc. She is not bored , so I think but she finds me weird that I just stay "tuned" into a sex mind space until the deed is done.

Please tell me I am not going crazy to find the odd. I am actually avoiding sex now because I have said it over and over again that it's a turn off but she just things It's normal and I am expected to not be put off.

How is your poor wife? Did you kick her and her newborn baby out of the house that you own because she wasn't having much sex with you?

I know right, it’s such a pain not being able to drive round Castle Meadow anymore

But not sure it’s something to be debated during sex

I hate this too when my wife does this. I get it real life gets in the way and intrudes sometimes but yeah I hate it. Like can’t you just get out of your head and just be present in the moment and want this with me in this moment for just a few minutes out of the week. Theres plenty of time to worry about all that other stuff in life just please be here with me now get out of your head and just enjoy it. Is that so much to ask. Makes me feel like her attitude towards sex is that it’s just another chore. That really hurts