I guess I'm wanting to know if I'm going crazy... since having our son our sex life has gone downhill. We probably do it 3/4 times a month but my partner is wanting more and gets upset by this.
The problem is, he doesn't make me feel attractive, wanted or sexy. Foreplay is non existent. For instance, last night were sat on the sofa watching telly, I had a little burp because I was drinking fizz and he said you know what cures burps, playing with my cock... I look over and he's sat with a hardon looking at me. Am I meant to be instantly aroused? He's done things like this before and I said to him it puts me in the position where I feel I have no choice. Cue him being pissed off and saying I make him feel like a predator and he doesn't talk to me for the rest of the night. I can't remember the last time he gave me a compliment and honestly I feel like it's more that he just wants a shag than wanting me or being turned on by me.