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Only had 1 sexual partner

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ForCheekyMauveFox · 01/09/2024 09:29

I’m 28 and have only had one sexual partner, mainly because of a long term relationship which has now ended.I have had other experiences in the past, but mostly touching and oral I find it difficult to meet women because I’m generally attracted to older women and i am not sure a man whose primarily looking to expand his sexual horizons are at the top of there list. I’m not saying I wouldn’t be open to a relationship but i feel like ive missed out? If that makes sense.

Any advice?

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DixonD · 01/09/2024 16:28

I would say you have not missed out. And you’re still so young so plenty of time to catch up on experiences.

PinotPony · 01/09/2024 18:46

I don't think many women would instantly dismiss a guy just because he's young and has limited experience.

I think you just have to be honest. Don't pitch it as "I'm totally inexperienced with no confidence. Please teach me"! But there's nothing wrong with saying "I've not had a lot of sexual partners so, rather than guess, I'd really like you to tell me what it is you like."

A willingness to listen and pay attention to how a woman reacts to you is much more important that having fucked a whole load of other people.

It might be worth reading She Comes First, if you're not confident about anatomy. And lots of sex educators do online courses about tantric or yoni massage, which would probably help you.

Girlmom35 · 03/09/2024 12:31

It depends on what you think 'limited experience' is.
A man who's had 20 one night stands, has had sex 20 times. But he could say he's been with 20 women.
A man who's been in a steady relationship for 10 years, having sex once a week for 10 years, has had sex 520 times. Yet he's supposedly inexperienced...

Plus, I don't think it's that strange to be in your situation. I was in a similar situation, until becoming single at 27 and experiencing what I like to call my sexual Renaissance 😂

Either way, inexperience isn't unattractive to most women. Lack of confidence is. Have fun, be open to learning. Be attentive, watch how she responds to you and keep doing those things. Ask questions about what she wants and likes.
It will be okay.

Ibloodylovetea · 03/09/2024 15:18

Touching & oral is part of sex-it's not all about the willy work(!) You sound like a lovely sensitive person. As OPs say listen to the woman & how she's responding, don't be afraid to ask questions. You can look forward to some great sex. .

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