My partner and I have a great sex life, but we are always looking for ways to spice it up. Last week I raised the subject of swinging and I was a little surprised that my partner didn’t object. How do we progress? I think that our relationship is strong enough that it’s not about just wanting to have sex with someone else, but having an exciting experience that we would both enjoy. To that end, I think we should go to a swingers club where we could take in the whole atmosphere, talk to people there and see if it is for us before we jump in at the deep end. I am nervous about doing a swap with a couple privately in case there is an expectation that we should have full on sex with them and I actually find I don’t like seeing my partner with someone else . With this in mind can anyone recommend a club that would be best for Newbies dipping their toes in the water, or hot tub, for the first time. We are based in the South West and our three nearest clubs are Steamers Quay and Within Temptation in Torquay, or Naked Occasions in Crediton. Preferably it would be a Friday or Saturday night. Also does anyone know the best night to visit, we’d hate to turn up on a quiet night and end up talking to the bar staff. Please help us , we haven’t a clue how to get started , but now we have an itch that needs scratching.