How long for men to cum?

[lauraUK1000]

Wondering how long it usually takes for husbands and boyfriends to cum and do they all actually cum quite quickly? Do they go long enough for female partners to be satisfied?

My husband is usually done in a couple of minutes now and would be great for him to go longer.

I would tend to agree and my husband has seen side effects from these, not all bad, in the last few years. He lasts for ages now which has been amazing for me and no complaints at all but so long he often doesn't actually cum.

He's probably seen the opposite effect on his sex drive and whilst his drive for 'sex' is still very good he says he just doesn't really get any urge to masturbate anymore. This is quite a change as he used to need to do this a lot, probably daily, so it's also perhaps not such a bad thing he doesn't need to wank all the time now 😂

I’m going to be honest it all depends but I can got anything for 15 minutes to an hour depending on the situation. My other half always monad that because of how long it takes she can’t do “a quicky”

I don’t know if that’s the norm or above/below average

I’ve had men ejaculate as I’ve pulled it out of their pants and had lovers that will go on for hours literally, (def too much! )

The average time and enough for me 15-20mins
obviously depends on what you do xx

How long is a piece of string

Takes me about 5-10 minutes. If I reach fifteen minutes, and haven't, then I'm not going to - I just start getting sore. Probably can't if I've ejaculated in the previous 24 hours. I'm nearly 50.

I had an adventure this afternoon. My wife was in the living room with her fuck buddy. I have had many MMF intimate threesomes with them both but today it was just meant to be him and my wife.

I had to pop in the room,(it's normal for this to happen) and he was laid on his back on the sofa with my wife sat on his face with him giving her oral.

He was very erect so I just kneeled down and gave him a BJ. He must have been very excited by this sudden act as he came in about 10 seconds.

I enjoyed it, gave my wife a cum kiss and then left them to it.

It brightened up my afternoon.

Last night it took Dp about 45 mins … and we went to bed late last night so I am shattered today lol 😜 But it was worth it :)

I was in a hotel Monday night, for business. Let's just say that there was a bloke next door who was going for over 90 minutes and his lady friend was either in acute pain or having a really grand time.
I thought of banging on the wall and telling him to check this thread out, but thought it impolite to spoil their fun 😁

Just wondering why your satisfaction has to be impacted.
I've been with different men, some who took over an hour, others who couldn't last 2 minutes. I can't say that one is always better than the other. It all depends

• Is he quick to orgasm because he physically can't hold it in, or is it because he only cares about his pleasure, and not about yours, and rushes to finish?
• Has he given you an orgasm before finishing himself?
• Does he finish quickly because he's going at it at a fast pace? What happens when he slows down, takes a break now and then, switches between PIV and other forms of intimacy?
• Does he know he's leaving you unsatisfied? Does he care?

Personally, the time taken to cum can vary but there are always other options. I don't see it just as my need to get off, but often will make sure that my wife is satisfied before I get off.
Maybe in the slightly 'older' bracket at 60, but making sure we're both satisfied is high on the list of what's important to get from it and important to me
It's all about mutual pleasure, not rushing it, well sometimes rushing it lol, and just enjoying it for what it is.

Depends what position really. If I'm on top then he usually doesn't last long as he says he can't control it.