Is this a bit weird or do others do stuff like this too?

[amitheonlyonewhodoesthis]

I’ve always been very vanilla and dull. No sex life to speak of.

Six months ago I had sex with a stranger. We met off an app, went to cinema, spent the entire film with him whispering in my ear. Went to his, had (incredible) sex for most of that night. Never seen him since. No plans to.

I was wearing a (gorgeous, I loved it before) long necklace which he made me keep on as he liked it.

I’ve washed it since! since worn it out a few times to weddings and nights out, etc. Get compliments wearing it at times.

When I see/wear it, in my head I always think ‘I was that woman once’ and get a bit of a giggle at the memory and the realisation that I could do that again. TBH it actually boosts my confidence hugely - I felt so attractive, desired and empowered that night.

It felt a bit wrong my lovely elderly aunty saying it was beautiful a few days ago though!! Is this OK or is it a bit odd?

Not odd at all!

You will never know what Aunt would think if she knew the whole story.
Chances are, she would not be critical of you. But please this is your secret. You keep it so.
Enjoy that thought along with the memory of that night.

lol, you enjoy that version of you! I love the naughty version of myself that very few know about! I have a certain green bra that has memories attached, oh, and an innocuous looking tote bag under the picnic rug in the car that’s full of…accessories!
Both bring a secret smile to my soul that nobody else understands!

Sounds like you had a brilliant time, and good for you! I divorced two years ago after 38 years of marriage, so I totally get it. Nothing wrong with holding on to those memories—enjoy them and wear that necklace with pride!

You also don't know what kind of sex life your lovely elderly aunty had had.

She may have been a very strong sexual woman in the past.

I recall a previous partner, who was 20 years older than me, we had a very open and adventurous sex life.

Once we had Sunday lunch with some of her grandchildren, and I recall thinking, they don't know that this morning we both woke up in a bed with another woman who we had spent the night fucking each other.

Enjoy your memories, and create a few more.

It’s now a “friendship necklace”. Nothing wrong with that. You will want the same to happen again with someone one day.

lt’s a bit annoying to have someone whispering in your ear during a film though 😀.