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Do people prefer rough or gentle sex?

17 replies

Robin15 · 21/07/2024 12:58

Gentle is more romantic and affectionate while rough sex is just hormones overtaking us and wanting good sex. I enjoy gentle because it's the best kind of sex in the right mood and right partner, but rough sex is a good choice nonetheless since it helps both sides orgasm

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PTown · 21/07/2024 13:15

Slow is my preference. I despise “rough” and it gets me nowhere near orgasm.

NinaOakley · 21/07/2024 21:48

Depends on my mood and who I’m shagging! There is a time place for both.

SportGirl · 21/07/2024 23:03

Gentle in the morning but rough in the evening/night

GigiAnnna · 22/07/2024 00:10

I like it hard and fast but not rough as in like choking or causing me pain. I would say it's romantic but passionate.

TheKookyJoker · 22/07/2024 00:41

Ideally, as a guy, you want both, and both approaches have their moments. Hard and fast for those times you just really need a passionate encounter, and to give your partner maximum pleasure, and slow and sensual for those times you want to enjoy the sensations and switch It up. Best to modulate between them, teasing and keeping her guessing, and also allows the bloke to last longer. Slow and gentle allows for lots of kissing, touching and stroking, fast and furious, more I just want you to come and hopefully finish together.

SeventiesTom · 23/07/2024 00:09

my partner is very sub and loves rough

BlackPanther75 · 26/07/2024 00:42

TheKookyJoker · 22/07/2024 00:41

Ideally, as a guy, you want both, and both approaches have their moments. Hard and fast for those times you just really need a passionate encounter, and to give your partner maximum pleasure, and slow and sensual for those times you want to enjoy the sensations and switch It up. Best to modulate between them, teasing and keeping her guessing, and also allows the bloke to last longer. Slow and gentle allows for lots of kissing, touching and stroking, fast and furious, more I just want you to come and hopefully finish together.

Swap ‘as a guy you want’ for ‘I want’

you aren’t all men and we all like different stuff thanks

Kerkyra2024 · 26/07/2024 10:03

I like a bit of both. Rough being just hard and fast no bondage or anything like that 😅 lots of foreplay is also really important for me

TheKookyJoker · 26/07/2024 10:12

@BlackPanther75 , sorry. I meant I.

PinotPony · 26/07/2024 10:39

Depends entirely on the dynamic and how I'm feeling in the moment. Sensual, lingering touches are delicious but sometimes I just want to be thrown around!

Truthbetolddd · 14/09/2024 06:28

Literally depends on the moment. Sometimes I like being tied up my head pushed into the pillows and he does it real hard to the point where it’s a little painful but at the same time it’s such a turn on. Other times I like it where he is gentle and starts by kissing my toes then works his way inside my legs slowly to my f4nny up to my boobs then starts gently kissing me and it’s very sensual.

BeenThere101 · 14/09/2024 09:28

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LeahMcx · 17/03/2025 07:17

Bit of both

Gymbunny2025 · 17/03/2025 07:24

More towards rough than gentle. Gentle sex would do zero for me. I’d be running through a to do list probably 😂 but with fingers definitely gentle!

LeahMcx · 17/03/2025 07:25

Gymbunny2025 · 17/03/2025 07:24

More towards rough than gentle. Gentle sex would do zero for me. I’d be running through a to do list probably 😂 but with fingers definitely gentle!

Oh you're correct haha

brunettemic · 17/03/2025 09:58

I guess define “rough”…sometimes I love DH taking me hard and fast from behind but other times I’ve love taking it slow, feeling intertwined etc.

SimpleSister · 17/03/2025 13:37

Usually prefer gentle, but sometimes I do want it to be a bit harder. Perhaps 'vigorous' or more 'energetic' rather than rough.
It was quite difficult persuading him to do it how I wanted. He was so afraid of hurting me. Hid not want to cause me pain.

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