Have lead a long healthy happy marriage with my dh for 20 years i am 38 he is 42
He has always been a practising Muslim I am also very
religous conscious.
At the beginning of the year my dh decided to he wanted to be more conscious and spend more time
performing prayer prothets sunnah reciting kur'an etc and also joined a
suffism group which lead to less famiky time . We have always had a active enjoyable
sex life untill recently were he now says oral sexs
makes him religiously uncomfortable and he felt guilt even if
there is no clear evidence it is haram it is very close
to haram he says and as his human right I guess I have to
respect that but i have become very unhappy with the
situation for me giving oral initiates arousaI on my part and i feel deprived now and this is causing
some arguments or me to become irritable with him
because I am not reaching the full pleasure from my
marriage I have always been used too also less family time has taken its toll we had started ttc again but i feel it is
Not a good idea as i am geeling increasinly unahappy please can anyone advise am I making this into a drama it doesent need to be or am I within my rights to want that