Why at aged 50 and I suddenly obsessed with giving my DH a BJ ?

[basilbrushestail19]

I'm F

Always been wiling to give my DH a BJ if asked, but it's not necessarily been my favourite sex thing to do and I only do it if asked.

Suddenly, I find myself wanting to give him oral at every opportunity. He must think all his xmas's have come at once !

I don't know what is going on with me, and nor does he !!! Any idea for the mood change ?

the other day, I squatted to give him a BJ in a very dark alley while walking home at 1am together. It felt dirty and I loved it

Can you remember the first time you felt like this? Did you maybe see the act in a different light? Think of it in a different way than you did before? Have you seen or read anything that might've changed how you think about it or that inspired you?
Are you generally hornier?
Are BJs something he likes in particular?
Do you think you particularly want to give BJs or just want to please sexually?

I've just got very horny. Is this peri-related ?!
I just want to be as dirty (a respectable dirty) as possible

It is a form of control of the man. Being in charge of when he ejaculates and making him erect is giving you a feeling of keeping him from wandering to other women.

The questions at 1148 are brilliant.... following to see whether there's a driver, with the right circumstances, to feel so differently.

I think it’s peri related. I’ve experienced similar, though not on the same scale as you OP…going from feeling repulsed by it to being open to doing it.

I can relate to this so thanks for sharing. As our relationship has gone on, I've got more and more preoccupied with sucking my partner. Sometimes it's a feeling almost like hunger. It's something my mind turns to frequently if I allow myself to daydream, wishing he was there so I could perform my ministrations. It's a shame men are limited in terms of how often they can orgasm!

I wouldn't worry about it - it's something intimate that brings two people closer together and leaves us with smiles on our faces, knowing we've just done something naughty. Especially if everyone around us is just carrying on with their boring activities - shopping, answering emails, scrolling instagram or washing their cars. It's important to carve out moments of pleasure amidst the mundanity.

Don’t worry, I’ve always been obsessed with my partners penis and I give him a bj every time we have sex! He doesn’t even have to ask 😅 That and daydreaming about giving him a bj while I should be working lol!