Went on a date and had a really good discussion about sex

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Was kind of shocked but respected how absolutely honest he was ... that he has a sky high libido , likes role playing, light sub/ dom stuff and likes to enjoy sex for hours on end with a partner .. doesn't do one night stands . Needs that connection and from that point of view we're definitely on the same page
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Now I like all of these things very much but I've genuinely never met anyone telling me this as honestly as before. I'm excited by it for sure but wondering if I will be able to keep up with him ...
Will it feel like pressure ...

The initial chemistry / spark was unreal between us when we met. We've arranged a date for the weekend.

I'm Nervous but excited perhaps. Plus I'm out of this game a very long time .

Well if you decide you’re not up to it please can I have his number?!
seriously, just be as honest with him in return and have a bloody brilliant time!

Oh, I’ve been out of the game a long time, too, but getting back in is great fun!

It sounds like you're very well matched then! Have fun, be safe and come back to update us as to how things go.

Thanks. I'm just a little overwhelmed with the frankness and honesty of it all tbh . All night sex is something I remember from my youth and my exh and exp were not into certain things I was so I'm very rusty . He has absolutely NO inhibitions and left me a voice note about how sexy he thought I was and his type etc and gradually the exchanges between us got more explicit . I'm totally comfortable with the content of those but it's all been so unexpected .
I'm just hoping that I don't feel scared or nervous or under pressure although he is always talking about ' within the realm of respectful relationship ' etc regarding intimacy.maybe I just need to take a deep breathe and go for it 🙈

Actions speak louder than words luv!

So nice that you can communicate that way
and that you can be honest with each other.

enjoy

I had a very similar conversation with the man I have been dating for two months, before we even met. And it scared the bejesus out of me.
I had the same reservations that you have and I was intimidated by his confidence, and wondered if normal human me with my normal share of hang ups and insecurities would just make a fool of myself with such an experienced and self-assured person. But I also found it very attractive, and found him very attractive, and...well let's just say it had been a while, and so I decided that it was a risk I was willing to take.

And BOY was it worth the risk. 😂 New man is extremely confident for very good reasons but it's not remotely intimidating, it is hot as hell. And his utter conviction that sex is going to be incredible is very infectious and has unlocked confidence in me that I didn't know I had. It's intense and exciting and liberating, and I've never fancied anyone so much in my life.

Go for it, enjoy it and let yourself be swept up in the enthusiasm!

I’d use it to your advantage and mirror his confidence by telling him exactly what YOU want, making sure he meets YOUR needs, rather than wondering if you live up to his expectations if that makes sense?

Sounds good where did you meet? Online I presume?

Did he also ask what you're into?

How did it go OP?