if you were a virgin again , would you lose your virginity in the same way as you did?

[BrickPoet]

no for me

Has anyone else been getting creepy PMs off the back of this thread and others? Same person with different usernames but same style of writing.

No I haven't, thankfully! Have you reported them to MNHQ?

@GigiAnnna - I haven’t received anything either.

@StarlightLady thing is, when I was a teen things were very different. I'm around 20 years older than you, and the fear of pregnancy was massive in those days. Having a child 'out of wedlock' was a seriously negative thing, so having full, penetrative sex was even more significant when it happened, which is why (I think) so many of us waited.

Even when I did sleep with my boyfriend, and I had gone on the pill, it was a constant fear!

So I get why many would wait, and why - when it happened - it was so important.

Nothing creepy coming through here, either. Do report it if it’s upsetting you.

@GigiAnnna late yesterday I had a PM but it was removed by Admin overnight, I have no idea what it was about. Currently I am not chatting to anyone. It would have been nice to have known who it was.

They were both removed shortly afterwards. It was definitely the same person as they wrote the same stuff and could barely string a sentence together.

I most definitely wouldn't change it. I was lucky as I resisted the pressure and was 20 when I lost mine. My bf was mid 20s and experienced. I didn't rush and he knew I wasn't going to jump into bed with him and when I felt ready (had done some fairly intense kissing etc before) he arranged a short break in The Lakes. Was rather nice us both knowing we wanted to and he knew I was a virgin.

Lovely hotel, I thought we would be having an evening out and coming back but it actually happened before the evening.

The reality is his experience is what it made it so totally nice. I felt ready, and he took so much time touching, massaging and frankly when I was so turned on what his tongue did down below. He also gently showed me what to do as well. As a PP said, the feeling of reaching orgasm was just amazing.

Sadly we parted as he emigrated, but the fact we didn't fall out enhances my happy memories of losing my virginity to him. We do still have occasional contact but he is happily based in Australia as a doctor.

@BIWI - The point l was trying to make (albeit badly, sorry!) is that there is too much emphasis on the sexist attitude to the loss of virginity, which l don’t buy and not enough consideration on the pregnancy avoidance aspect which you mention here. x

@Namechangeforthisonly10 Your 'first time' sounds perfect. My first time with a woman was rather like your experience. She paid me so much attention I was so totally relaxed. (So different I started a thread about it. 😋)
From your description I wonder if you also have made love with a woman. . .

Ah yes @StarlightLady - I see what you mean. Yes, it's all very much about women 'giving' their virginity away, which isn't the case for men!