Clit orgasm

[ahatfulllofdreams]

Can anyone put into words exactly how a clit orgasm feels, and how they know whether they have had one?

I'm trying to work out whether what I am experiencing is 'it'.

I can only achieve this feeling through oral and it can take a while with very specific pressure, speed, movement and patience.

It begins with a slightly tingly, warm feeling, and progresses to almost like a nice ticklish sensation before becoming very warm and super sensitive. I can't find the words to describe how it feels, but I know it feels so good and once I have had my first one I can have several more of these feelings with the right level of oral stimulation. If I grab my partners face and control the speed I can make sure it happens again and again until I can't take the sensitivity any longer.

Afterwards I feel really swollen and sensitive, and sometimes I feel like the same sensation of when I need a wee during but push fluid out of my vagina that does not smell like wee.

I’ve just had one. DIY job most mornings. Difficult to put into words. From what you say, it sounds as if you ate getting warm but not quite there; tell your partner to keep going!

When it happens there will be no doubt. You are probably best spending more time discovering your own body too. Work out exactly what us best for you.

As the expert has said spend time with yourself. Do you watch any gentle Girl on Girl porn on such as Bellesa? Might help your own technique. Imagine yourself in a world of luxury.

I think if you are unsure if you have or not, then you haven't quite reached it. Believe me, you'll know. They can vary in intensity but an orgasm is still an orgasm. It's a build up of pleasure with an amazing release. I visual it as a slow journey up a rollercoaster, then when you reach the top, you feel a rush of pleasure that comes in waves. That's the pelvic contractions. They increase before they they reach their peak, before slowly fading out. Then a blissful relaxed feeling.

Have you ever seen a bunny rabbit doing a movement called a “binky” (really happy twisty jump?)
Imagine your bits doing a series of those completely involuntarily before burning up and throbbing.
Personally what is going on in my brain is just as important as what is being done to me physically for getting there.

I agree. The brain is a sexual organ. I can use a sex toy or experience any type of stimulation to my bits but I won't start the path to orgasm until I start to be mentally turned on. This could be in the form of a visual image, thinking of a scenario that turns you on or being aroused in the moment. G spot orgasm can happen imminently for me for some reason, but I need that mental arousal for clitoral orgasm.

It’s different with my FWB vs by myself. By myself it’s more like pleasant feeling, pleasant feeling suddenly builds, few strong muscle spasms and sense of warmth. Sensation generally doesn’t extend to the rest of my body. Sometimes gasp a bit but nothing major. Too sensitive to carry on after, I usually stop at one.

FWB - pleasant feeling comes and goes in waves before suddenly building up to an overwhelmingly intense feeling all over, can feel spasms inside but they’re weaker, it’s more of an overall sensation. Cannot keep quiet. Too sensitive for a bit after to tolerate any more touching. Put it this way the first time he brought me to orgasm I couldn’t stand up after for a few minutes as my legs were weak. I do think the brain and connection makes a huge difference.

If you're unsure then you've not got there.

My DIY clit orgasms are more of a release, feels great but can achieve in minutes and don't get the same build up as one from oral. I've had some amazing orgasms from oral, real toe curling leg twitchers that leave me fit for nothing for at least 5 minutes - you'll definitely know when you've had one!

If you need to ask then you’ve never had one.