I just have zero labido. Firstly my anti depressants can cause it, secondly he never spends time with me, makes me feel like an inconvenience or a lodger then expects me to want to do that? I’m an intimate sec person nort a shag person and so is he but he doesn’t even try to butter me up. I’m so over this and thinking of separation which seems crazy when we both live eachother deep down, no hate, just not working well. I honestly can’t be bothered anymore. Maybe he’s feeling the same but still wants sec meh I dunno. Maybe we should do marriage counselling first.