So I had second date with a man yesterday and we ended up having sex. I cum, he didn’t (I tried - gave him oral sex, we had sex twice during the night). I admit I was having quite bit of wine, but thought we had enjoyable night. I told him prior to this that I’m bit nervous as I haven’t had sex for a long time. This morning I was leaving - went to give him a kiss and he went to tell me I was really selfish last night and that he was disappointed. I left in tears to be honest and don’t know what to think of it. My confidence wasn’t great to start with, but even tho he didn’t finish I thought he had fun. Also alcohol obviously played role. I wish he could have just let it go as a first time and maybe have more gentle conversation . I don’t know how to continue … any advice ? Was I really that bad for not making him finish ? I never see orgasm as a goal (I don’t cum sometimes but wouldn’t even think about telling someone after one night that they are selfish). Can we recover ?