Should I tell my ex I had a threesome?

[3isnotacrowd]

I had my first threesome last week. It was an FFM and it was fun and a turn on.

But all the way through and afterwards I kept thinking the guy should have been my ex, or he should have at least been watching.

We had a very sexual relationship and it was his fantasy to watch me with another woman or man.

The problem is we had quite a bad breakup. I still miss him and although we have spoken quite recently, it was about very generic things, nothing personal at all.

Part of me knows telling him this would be a really bad idea but the other part of me knows how much it would turn him on to know.

Who else but the wise men and women who follow the sex topic on mumsnet to tell me whether I would be an idiot to do this or not.

We all did everything with everyone. No idea if that's what others do but that's what we did. ☺️

Thanks. Yes similar story. When he first brought it up, I didn't even know anything like it existed. I had lived a very sheltered life lol.

But I am sitting here thinking about all the possible worst case scenarios if I did tell him and I am going to try my very best to resist.

Or alternatively, tell him, enjoy it, and then move on. I'm further down the line than you are with your ex. I had to go through it, I had to share it with him and see his response, and then feel shit about myself afterwards. Then, eventually, I enjoyed deleting the video and blocking any further contact. Finally, I have removed him from my life.
Maybe that way will work for you?

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