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Multiple orgasms

14 replies

loandbeholder · 07/01/2024 00:30

Welllllp, this is an awkward one for me to write😂 But I need advice please ladies.

I hear so many sex stories from my friends about how they have an orgasm and then carry on having sex, potentially leading to another one. I personally feel way too sensitive down there after I've gone, and sex feels uncomfortable to carry on with. Is this normal? can anyone relate or give advice on how I get past this? Blush

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anxhappy · 07/01/2024 00:56

I would also love to know how people multiple orgasm 🤣 , I be too sensitive and there's no way I can keep going. How do people do it !?! Same boat OP!

MovedonfromMartin · 07/01/2024 01:19

I'm with you both.
I've often wondered about multiples. I may have had 1 or 2 in my life which were a blip of an orgasm followed by another blip. I question if it's quality or quantity we should be after? I'm often completely wiped out by an orgasm and rendered incapable of much for a while afterwards as they are often all over body affairs with after shocks (which aren't orgasms, more shudders, strange breathing and tears). I think I might pass out if I had more than one of those at a time! So if the OP doesn't mind, can the 'multiples people' also add if your multiple orgasms are all rip snorters please?

Note the technical sex terms ...rip snorters and blips

GigiAnnna · 07/01/2024 07:23

I can but I have to wait about 5 minutes before going again. This is just with clitoral. If it's been amazing and strong or mild with not that many contractions, I still only need a few minutes either way. Usually my second orgasm will feel even better and happen very quickly.
With G spot pleasure I can just keep coming again and again until there's nothing left to come out. I've had the odd orgasm that had 2 peaks, kind of like a 2 in 1 orgasm but those are rare for me.

JTRSOP · 07/01/2024 09:19

I’m the same. Just too sensitive. I can have another one if I wait a little bit, but usually, I only actually NEED one.

StarlightLady · 07/01/2024 09:25

I can do this, either from oral or with a vibey. But immediately after l climax the sensitivity is such that l can barely cope with being touched to the point of it being quite uncomfortable, but if l persevere through this, repeat(s) happen.

It’s nice once in a while, but for the reasons above, l couldn’t handle such sensitivity on every occasion.

BloominFlower · 07/01/2024 10:35

I’m able to have multiple orgasms. I have no idea if every woman can but I used to think I couldn’t have more than one at a time. I’m single at the moment so it’s just by myself. I find that getting myself fully aroused and relaxed with lots of body touching (before touching vulva) helps a lot. If I were to have a clitoral orgasm, I could only have one, however, I play internally where my g spot is, it’s at the top of the vagina, using a ‘come hither’ motion at the top, you should be able to feel a rough texture not far from the entrance. Stimulating that with fingers or toys allows me to go again and again and they get more intense . That’s the basic jist of it for me, can’t say it works for everyone though

GigiAnnna · 07/01/2024 10:44

BloominFlower · 07/01/2024 10:35

I’m able to have multiple orgasms. I have no idea if every woman can but I used to think I couldn’t have more than one at a time. I’m single at the moment so it’s just by myself. I find that getting myself fully aroused and relaxed with lots of body touching (before touching vulva) helps a lot. If I were to have a clitoral orgasm, I could only have one, however, I play internally where my g spot is, it’s at the top of the vagina, using a ‘come hither’ motion at the top, you should be able to feel a rough texture not far from the entrance. Stimulating that with fingers or toys allows me to go again and again and they get more intense . That’s the basic jist of it for me, can’t say it works for everyone though

That's exactly how I experience G spot orgasms too, though my husband gives me them, I can't seem to reach it myself. I used to think squirting wasn't a legit thing for women until I started experiencing this kind of stimulation and it really is like nothing else.

BloominFlower · 07/01/2024 10:48

GigiAnnna · 07/01/2024 10:44

That's exactly how I experience G spot orgasms too, though my husband gives me them, I can't seem to reach it myself. I used to think squirting wasn't a legit thing for women until I started experiencing this kind of stimulation and it really is like nothing else.

I get what you mean, I’ve been single for a while now so have had to adapt and try lots of different things which is fun in itself. I haven’t squirted before but have felt the urge to wee during which I believe is a sign

xpc316e · 07/01/2024 15:17

My experience of multiple orgasms, as a man, is that I have only come across one woman who was truly capable of having one orgasm immediately after another. We were FWB for a while and she was unusual in that she came easily from PIV sex without needing clitoral stimulation.

Our multiple orgasm sessions involved my using a dildo on her. Once she had reached an initial orgasm, we would cease for perhaps 30 seconds and then recommence vigorous use of the dildo. Within less than a minute she would come again, there would be another short rest, and so on ad infinitum. We would lose count of how many times she came, but it was often more than thirty.

The crucial factor, in my opinion, was that as direct stimulation of her clitoris was not involved there was no extreme sensitivity that occurs immediately after orgasm. Having said that, I am a man and what do I know of the mechanics of female sexuality?

My current partner can have more than one orgasm when using a vibrator, but after her orgasm there is not the situation of her remaining on a sort of plateau where minimal stimulation takes her to another orgasm. When she has an orgasm there is almost a return to square one with a lot of clitoral stimulation being required to bring her off again. Luckily, she does not seem to experience the extreme clitoral sensitivity.

I think the moral of the tale is that, as usual, we are all different. Even women who can have more than one orgasm are all individual in the way they manage to do so.

coffeetofunction · 03/02/2024 04:10

I regularly have multiple but sometimes struggle to fully climax even after 9 or 10. When I don't fully climax it can be frustrating and sometimes my partner feels that it's reflection of them. My partner didn't realise they could have multiple until I encouraged it, however it happens far less then for me

Itsnotallaboutyoulikeyouthink · 18/02/2024 09:07

I can but my partner knows that even if I suggest that it’s too much to just carry on. It does feel overwhelming but completely worth it.

Mrsknowitall · 18/02/2024 11:09

I can have multiple orgasm’s but only when I’m on top, I push through the sensitivity and within seconds I’m on to my second orgasm then my husband grabs my thighs or waist and gives me a bit more momentum then I’m on to number three 😂 honestly ladies push through the sensitivity and thank me later 😉

lucyandmike · 19/02/2024 04:08

I can have multiples but I just need a minute if I have had a clitoral orgasm as it gets really sensitive, as I'm normally using a vibrator on it. I can also get orgasms and even multiples from penetration, mainly because my husband can go so long without cumming as he is on anti-depressants at the moment.

IloveWelshcakes · 19/02/2024 07:05

Multiples happen for me occasionally. Usually unexpectedly and always when I'm on top. Typically I cum once and then get a "haven't quite finished" feeling and that there's more to come. Then one or two more will follow quite quickly.

My husband is good at just holding still, lying back and letting me get on with it until I'm done. Definitely after that I'm too sensitive down there for any further action!

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