Struggling with DP premature ejaculation

[TheDehumid]

My dp is amazing..so kind and loving to my daughter and myself. He is great in every single way but I'm struggling to accept the premature ejaculation.
It's worth knowing that I'm the second person he's slept with and I've slept with many more and had a history of sex etc.
We are only mid twenties, but my dp can't last long in bed. I've been patient with this and we've tried tablets to help but I struggle with having to plan sex etc. and they don't help awfully much.
I miss sex and that passion and desire. I feel undesired because our sex life is almost non existent I know he's attracted to me and wants this but just can't and the anxiety about it makes it more difficult for him. I just don't know what to do here. I feel selfish saying that it's knocked myself esteem but it has and I hate this for him as I know he feels guilty about it. He could live his life without sex (even if he does want it) because he's never really had it, but I miss it and I don't ever want us to just become friends because we don't have a sexual relationship.
Does anyone have any suggestions? Unsure where to go from here

If he has PE, then the worst thing is to have infrequent sex. Have sex far more frequently and he will naturally last longer.

If he orgasms, give him a short break and go for round two. That way he will again last longer.

Make sure that there is adequate lubrication in order that he doesn't get too much friction. Experiment with positions, as some will make him last longer.

Likely low testosterone levels , get a blood test and ask for a copy. He is likely low or boarder line low. Seek a private specialist as nhs in dark ages when it comes to this. It will transform his life if it’s that

There are few more things you can try, the easiest is to make his round 2 your round 1, you could also look to use condoms ( look for the delay ones), and / or a topical numbing cream for him to use, look for EMLA.

also agree with the comment above about having more regular sex, maybe daily for at least a month

also look at Numan or boots online DR service.

https://onlinedoctor.boots.com/premature-ejaculation

Thank you everybody, I will maybe try more frequently then

I would say more practice is likely to help. Even sex takes practice to improve.

What are the tablets?? Is it Viagra?

Does he finish when he's touching you, or is it when he's inside? What I've done with the most responsive guys I've been with is just stay doing the things he can do without finishing for a looooong time, until I'm happy, and then go ahead and do what takes him over the edge?