Woman deriving pleasure from a man's orgasm and ejaculation during sex - is it common to enjoy this or would you call it an unusual kink?

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I would say that one of the things that I enjoy most about sex is knowing that my partner is about to ejaculate. I have found that it often tips me over the edge into having an orgasm myself when I am getting close. For me there are multiple factors that contribute to why I enjoy it so much. Firstly, I'm a strong believer that sex should be equally enjoyable for both parties, and each should be trying their best to make it pleasurable for their partner. Knowing that he is receiving pleasure from me to the extent that he is going to have an orgasm from it is a significant turn-on to me. It boosts my ego and scratches an instinctive itch. If he makes some sounds to indicate that he is getting close to climaxing himself, or is actually having an orgasm (like grunting and groaning), then that makes it even more of a turn-on. The last thing for me is that I actually find it quite satisfying to know that I've been filled up, so to speak. I don't have any hang-ups about it. It's probably the thing that I enjoy the most about intercourse itself.

I wouldn't feel comfortable asking anyone in real life about this so I'm grateful to have the opportunity to do so on MN. My friends probably think I'm a prude who doesn't enjoy sex at all, and would no doubt be flabbergasted if I made the slightest mention of it. 😄

I think that's pretty vanilla OP! I certainly wouldn't call it a kink or unusual. Enjoy!

Definitely common to enjoy it. Not a kink.

This is the best part of sex, surely? Watching your partner climax? Hardly a kink.

Liking your partner feeling good seems very obvious.

Don't think it's a kink, sounds normal to me. It's very arousing to me to see and hear my husband approaching his orgasm.

Absolutely normal (and expected!) I’d say. I would have thought it would be far more unusual not to enjoy this.

Bit confused by this. Lots of words for the very basic thing.

Yup- normal and lovely.

I don't think it's an unusual 'kink' but I get what you mean OP. My wife says that she likes the thought of being 'filled up'. Considering that it's only about five mills of fluid it must be the thought and not really the actual feeling. Interestingly this is something that she says she has developed over time. She reckons She didn't think about it so much when she was younger.

My partners the same, she can time it so she cums when i do, once she feels my balls twitch and thrust change when im close it sends her over the edge, i can feel her tighten and normally cum together, definitely one of the best bits

I think it’s common, otherwise I must be kinky.

Also confused. Enjoying your partner feeling good is the most normal of all the normal things.

Were you after something else?

Perfectly normal and very lovely, just as it should be.

You're certainly not on your own, I absolutely love it. Fortunately, I'm in the lucky position of having a DP who has hyperspermia, so I get 'filled up' very well. 😋